Do you compare your sexual experiences with those you imagine/perceive your T has?

I do think about what his sex life with his wife is like. We’ve talked about sex quite a bit and for some reason I get the sense that I’m more.. out there than his wife is. I could be totally wrong though lol.

Of course I have done these mental comparisons!
What I imagine is that my T has only ever had one partner (his spouse) and that while they have had difficulties over the years, they now have a loving and occasionally sexy sex life.
I have no idea if that is even close to the mark. For all I know they go to sex clubs. Or are celibate. I cannot imagine any situation in which it would be even vaguely appropriate for T to tell me anything about his sex life so, though he knows much about mine, I will never know. Or ask.