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Old Jan 27, 2011, 10:23 PM
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my brother was killed today. please keep us in your prayers. my dad is not doing well and this just devastated over this. he was only 56
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Old Jan 28, 2011, 12:57 AM
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I am so deeply sorry Bebop. I will keep him, and you all in my prayers. So very sorry.
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Old Jan 29, 2011, 03:27 PM
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Oh, Bebop, I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for your father and you too, that in the pain you can also find peace.

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Old Feb 01, 2011, 03:59 PM
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lord how do I make it thru this????? I am hurting so bad! too much going on in my life to deal with this and my dad too! please help me thru it!
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((((bebop))))

We are here for you and care more than you know. Know that you are loved and we are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Keep reaching out as you can. Sending many gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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prayer for my family I'm so sorry ((bebop and Family)). Saying prayers for you during this difficult time.
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Old Feb 01, 2011, 04:56 PM
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oh bebop iam so sorry, i pray the arms of God be around you and family in coming days and your grief be as easy as can be
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Old Feb 01, 2011, 05:33 PM
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prayers for u & your family hun only leaning in the arms of God only He can heal that hurt and pain
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(((((bebop))))),

I just saw your thread....I am so sorry about your brother, what a shock to you & your family. Will keep you & your family in my prayers. I know your faith will get you through this. Know that God holds everyone in his hands.
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Old Feb 03, 2011, 09:05 AM
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((((((((bebop))))))))))))) I cry tears for you bebop. It must be beyond words how painful it is and I'm so very sorry for your brother. Seems like God needed him, although that sure doesn't help you right now.
You are constantly in my prayers several times a day bebop and I'm so very sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry I truly am bebop, because you have one of the most caring hearts I know of.
As your father has been in my prayers, YOU bebop also have been there constantly.

Deep within my heart, I cry with and for you,
with the most safe love to you bebop.
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Old Feb 04, 2011, 08:29 PM
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many prayers for u & your family going to the Lord our God & strength & peace only He can give in this kind of hurt i remember when i suddenly lost a family member not too long ago in october that sunday i went to church & sobbed during the whole service & i went to the altar & just let it all out there & many people came to pray with me i didnt even pray a word at the altar that day i guess my tears & pain as i knelt before the Lord was enuff said for Him there was something about that day & just something about going to the altar well for me that was like a supernatural healing touch like not anything from this world but from God in Heaven while we are here we r always human & still hurt & sadness & a lot of thinking & i will even find myself getting ready to call mom then i realize shes not here anymore the strangest feeling thinking of & prayers for you & your family the nite it happened dad did nothing but sit at the table & sob all nite & just keeping saying stuff over & over first time in my life i had ever seen that man cry hes puts up a tough exterior & even though i never saw anybody give him a hug even thru this i went to him & gave him one & patted his back whether he liked it or not lol now hes my fatherinlaw but im like a daughter & i have managed over the years to develop a raport i dont care how tough he put out to be or his outbursts & rants & cussin hmmm sorry didnt mean to get into all this but your loss & sadness just inspired me to think about stuff
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Old Feb 07, 2011, 11:42 PM
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Your still in my prayers bebop and I need you to know that,

I'm so sorry for your loss.............!

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Old Feb 08, 2011, 08:10 PM
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prayer for my family I am so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you!!
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Old Feb 12, 2011, 05:38 PM
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Just wanting to let you know that you are thought of often, and prayed for much...

I can't imagine the pain, and the devastation, you and your father feel with your brother's death...

May you take comfort knowing that God is right there, walking with you all the way...and know too, that you have a family here that is standing with you through all of it as well...

Peace to you today, my friend,

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Old Feb 13, 2011, 04:28 AM
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((((( Bebop))))) I continue to pray for your brother, father, you and other people in your family. Such loss is unimaginable. Bless your hearts, each and every one of you. May you each find moments of peace during this time.
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ohhh (((((((bebop))))))), i just saw this tonight. i am so so sorry for your loss. please accept my prayers and condolences.



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Old Feb 21, 2011, 08:45 PM
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Thank you all so much for the love and support. it has been 3 weeks now but dang it I am still having a difficult time accepting it. kind of like denial stage or something. dunno. it still hurts so much.
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Thank you all so much for the love and support. it has been 3 weeks now but dang it I am still having a difficult time accepting it. kind of like denial stage or something. dunno. it still hurts so much.
Hi Bee,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my only brother and sibling suddenly on Jan. 24th, 1974. He was only 38, and was walking around fine one day, and gone the next. I'm still not over it.

When I lost my beloved big brother, I struggled to make it to the first month he was gone, and then kept counting from there.

Part of me wanted to forget, b/c the pain was so intense, but then I would feel anxious that I would forget something about him that I would want to remember later. It is very, very hard.

My thoughts and prayers and love are with you.

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Old Mar 21, 2011, 09:33 PM
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Bebop - keep your strength, you are a strong woman.
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Old Mar 22, 2011, 04:59 PM
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I spent the day today with my Dad and one of my brother's sons. was hard seeing that young man in such pain. alot of junk went on right after Roger died and the boy hasn't had the time to grieve. almost 2 months already. missing him bad today.
thanks notz!
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