Place of forgiveness with OCD?

Hi all,

Just wondering what your thoughts are on the place of forgiveness in the life of someone with OCD.

Next year is my 30 year!! high school reunion. I don't plan on going because I felt like an outsider-it was a small class in a Christian school-17! I had one friend but the group was VERY CLIQUEISH! I went to the 20th and no one had changed!

My friend said I should forgive them-I've requested an appt. for a private confession with my Episcopalian rector.

OCD chick

Do your best on this one. IMO if you have improved, then you could go and they wouldn't leave saying no one had changed! If not forgiving them is harming you, or hindering you, then do forgive by all means! If they haven't asked for forgiveness, you really don't have to... since they could accept it in the first place. At this point, imo, it's all about you TC!

Yes, going to the reunion, getting up in front of everyone and telling them they were all jerks and I hated their guts wouldn't help matters!

OCD woman

lol noooooo that probably wouldn't be the best thing for you either But if you can just go and let them SEE .... heheheh that might be worth it?

Do your best ((((hugs)))