My church started a group called celebrate recovery. It is for people who have had drug and alcohole problems as well as codependency problems. I don't have problems that I am aware of with either of these, but my mentor thinks it will help me. I have issues from abuse in the past and a diagnosis of BPD and BP. I am afraid I will not fit in and also to mention about sexual issues due to the abuse. I am afraid they will look badly at me for some of the things I have done to cope in unhealthy ways with the abuse.

[Ryan]

Check this out... I've been abused... and diagnosed with bipolar disorder. God doesn't care, and neither will true Christians. If anything, when you begin to let go and share your experiences, they will see your passion for the Lord and be joyful that you have found a home.

Try not to think of Christians as judgemental people. Some are, and they give the rest of us a bad name. Keep your mind open, get to know these people you are studying with, and slowly begin to let go.

It's not an easy thing, but you can do it.

[bebop]

I don't think you should have to explain yourself in any kind of church. you don't have to tell them anything at all. church is for worshipping God. not sharing our past.

[Rapunzel]

You could try attending the group and see if you are comfortable enough there for it to help you. I don't know how much they will expect you to disclose, but would hope that if you do choose to talk, you would find much more acceptance than you think you will.

[1oxbowgirl]

Since it has been recommanded, check it out and see if you feel comfortable talking to the group. You may find that fitting in is not a problem, or you may only wish to share a little, but not a lot until you get to know them better.