update on Dad

2 different drs on that. I think they are afraid he will have a stroke during the first one and want him to have a chance to kind of recover a little. not sure though. I just realized a few minutes ago that his biopsy will be done on the anniversary of my mom's death. *sigh*

((((((((((bebop and dad)))))))))))

sending love your way, fingers crossed for you both

love, Jinny xoxoxoxoxo

hang in there bebop, may everything go well on both days.

Bee,

I'm glad I saw this tonight, so I can pray for you and your dear sweet Dad.

(((((((Bebop)))))))

EJ

thanks joe and EJ.

ok here is the update. they did Dad's first surgery this morning. They did not put him to sleep but did it under local. they did give him a sedative though to take the edge off. it went fine. they put the plaque in a little bottle for him to show off lol. anyway after seeing how closed it was I was glad they put off the biopsy part til tomorrow. that is the dreaded one for me. I saw the urologist and he was telling us it will still be at least 3 days before we know if it is cancer. however if it looks like there are tumors when they get in there tomorrow they will go ahead and resection the bladder. *sigh* another step to conquer.

Sorry, I'm late on this, but I'm sending you heartfelt good wishes,prayers, and keeping you and your dad in my thoughts.
Hope all goes well.
Love,
Roe

(((((((((((( Bebop and your dad ))))))))))))))

((( be and dad ))) still praying for you both.

Bee,

Prayers for any extra steps tomorrow.

(((((((Bebop and Dad)))))))

We never have a clue how wonderfully and marvelously we are made, until one of our parts starts malfunctioning.

Love,

EJ

((((((((((((((( bebop & dad & family )))))))))))))))))))

Prayers being sent for all.


sabby

thanks everyone. I am about to get ready to go back to the hospital for dad's surgery today. please please keep us in your prayers today.

errrrrrrrrr I am so frustrated! they are sending Dad home without the biopsy. They did a urine test this morning and he has a bactirial infection and they said if they did the surgery it would make him very sick. so in about 10 days they will try again.

Oh no beeeeeeee If it ain't one thing it's another eh? So sorry you got all worked up and ready for this day only to have dad sent home again.

Hugsss
sabby

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sabbie it is so stressful! waaaaaaa

thanks tomi. I really appreciate the hugs. (((U)))

((((be))))) i'm so sorry for the crazy stuff you and your dad are going through! my thoughts are with you and your dad. ((((hugs to you and your dad))))

(((((((Be)))))))) I'm so sorry you had to get so stressed just to have it not happen. Hang in there and let me know if you need to vent.

Love, Candy

thanks ww. good to know I can share openly here. (((hugs)))

candy thanks hon. (((hugs)))

gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Oh ok... all things in God's time, right?

let's hope so. I am so glad though that they did the artery surgery when they did. it was almost completely blocked. looked like 2 tiny little pin holes left for blood flow

awe thanks fuzzy!

Bebop,

I can understand your stressing for sure.....good part is that they successfully did the surgery to clear the blockage....that clears the way for the rest of the surgeries to be safely done.

I understand your concern & stress about the biopsy being put off even longer...it is frustrating because I know the urgent feelings about that, thinking that every minute longer with the possibility of cancer in the body just makes it even worse.

I know for me, the only thing that helps me through times like this is knowing that God is in control & he knows that it will be ok. My prayers are with you & your Dad that you both will be given peace while waiting for it all to come together.

(((((((((((((Bebop & Dad))))))))))))))),
Debbie

Debbie you are so right! thanks. I needed the encouragement this morning.

(((bebop)))

God IS sovereign and knows just what and why of it all. I truly pray for a good outcome in all of this... maybe God wanted us to pray so then he can show it isn't the cancer feared or something? IDK.