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#1
Oct 18, 2007, 08:39 AM
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my dad's surgery is today. please keep us in your prayers.
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Oct 18, 2007, 11:45 AM
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((((((bebop & dad))))))
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Oct 18, 2007, 02:57 PM
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You got it, Hon!
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Oct 18, 2007, 03:00 PM
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((((((((((((( bebop and dad )))))))))))))
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Oct 18, 2007, 07:43 PM
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This is a lot to bear for him and a lot for you.
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Oct 18, 2007, 07:46 PM
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(((((((((((bebop and dad)))))))))
keep us posted hun xoxoxoxoxojinny xoxoxoxoxoxo |
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Oct 18, 2007, 10:36 PM
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just got home. the news is not good as I highly suspected. they said it should take about an hour and a half. 3 hrs later they called us to the desk and asked for me and my stepmom to go into the counseling room. I knew then it was not good. The dr came in and started by telling us it was the worst looking bladder he had ever seen. he went ahead and did 2 frozen biopsies and those came back negative for cancer which is good right? hoping the rest come back like that. he still thinks it is cancer in his professional opinion but the results won't be in before Monday. He told us he thinks either way Dad will lose the bladder. He said even if it is not cancer the bladder is so severely damaged it can't be saved so he is sending us to the top hospital in Atlanta. He said he will get us in asap. Dad does not know yet how bad he is. I am crushed. I feel like a little girl right now wanting to crawl up on daddy's lap but I can't. will keep you all posted as I know more.
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Oct 18, 2007, 10:41 PM
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Two biopsies and no cancer? That's good. You KNOW they pulled biopsies from the areas they thought looked "most" cancerous!
No, it's not the best news ever...but still... What are the options at this point (((Bebop))) What else can make the bladder go south like that, dyk? TC of yourself in all this, remember! That's not being selfish, you HAVE to keep your boundaries of self care hon!
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Oct 18, 2007, 10:56 PM
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right now we don't know the options. we won't know til monday at the earliest.
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Oct 18, 2007, 11:00 PM
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(((Bebop)))
We can still pray that things will get better, and be thankful that cancer is not evident... 
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Oct 18, 2007, 11:51 PM
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I'm so sorry, Be! Will keep you in my prayers.
Couldn't he wear a bag like colostomy patients do?
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Oct 19, 2007, 12:08 AM
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yes hon that is what will happen if he loses the bladder. I will be so glad when the results come back and know when we will go to the other hospital. he was in so much pain this morning before the surgery and the meds they gave him did nothing. he said tonight that if the spasms don't stop he can't take it.
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Oct 19, 2007, 12:20 AM
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((((bee)))) i know it is heart breaking to see those we love suffer. keeping you and dad in prayer.
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Oct 19, 2007, 09:31 AM
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thank you hon.
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Oct 19, 2007, 11:00 PM
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(((((bebop))))) praying for you and your dad.
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Oct 20, 2007, 06:14 PM
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thank you hon. it is much appreciated!
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