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Old Sep 24, 2008, 11:51 PM
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today I feel like daddy's little girl again. we went for all his preop stuff today and the pa was telling us what all they are going to do next week during his surgery. He said all the reports they have from his other dr's indicate it is cancer but of course won't know for sure until surgery next week. I wanted to crawl up in his lap but of course that isn't possible. they will be doing about 4 or 5 procedures during one surgery. please keep him and us in your prayers. he is really going to need it.

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Old Sep 25, 2008, 04:48 AM
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Old Sep 25, 2008, 04:48 PM
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((((((((bebops daddy & Bebop))))))))))),

My prayers are with your daddy & with you & with the surgeon that his hand might be guided to a truely successful surgery.


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Old Sep 25, 2008, 05:05 PM
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thanks mybestkid it is so good to know I have friends here I can count on for prayers.

eskie thanks hon. you are always right here when I need you.
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Got any updates for us, Be? Have they set the date for surgery? How's your daddy doing?

You and he are in my prayers as always.

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Old Sep 29, 2008, 09:12 AM
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surgery is thursday morning. I am a wreck already. sunday at church dad just kept coming up to me hugging me and calling me his little sweet girl.
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Bebop,

I will be praying. What day is his surgery?

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Old Sep 29, 2008, 11:25 AM
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awww((bebop and Dad )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Old Sep 29, 2008, 12:10 PM
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(((( Be and dad )))) You're both in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything works out perfectly for you.
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Old Sep 29, 2008, 04:41 PM
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thanks guys. surgery is thursday morning. right now they are pretty sure it is cancer but won't know til after that of course. there are so many possible things that will happen we just don't know yet. very scarey for me right now.
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Old Sep 29, 2008, 04:49 PM
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I don't really pray, but I hope your dad and you find peace in whatever it is you'll be facing and enjoy your time together.
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Old Sep 29, 2008, 04:50 PM
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(((((((((((((((( bebop ))))))))))))))))))))))

Hold on tight hon....try to breathe....stay in the positive as much as you can and enjoy every single little hug and sweet words you can between the two of you.

Many prayers going out to you both hon.


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Old Sep 29, 2008, 07:15 PM
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Old Sep 29, 2008, 07:38 PM
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edahan thank you.

sabby I am trying hon.

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Old Oct 02, 2008, 06:20 AM
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Thinking of you and your daddy today.
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Old Oct 02, 2008, 11:06 AM
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Old Oct 02, 2008, 02:37 PM
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(((((((((((Be & Daddy)))))))))))),

Wondering how everything went today......I know the stressfulness of surgery like this & having you both in my prayers.

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Old Oct 02, 2008, 03:04 PM
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I just got a call from (((((((((((( bebop ))))))))))))))

She's had a long long day....up and out before dawn this morning. Her daddy made it through the biopsy well and they are just waiting for his legs to come back so they can leave to come home.

As soon as she is home later tonight she will post how what is going on. She just wanted everyone to know that right now her and her daddy are ok albeit tired.


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Old Oct 02, 2008, 09:16 PM
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just got home about half hour ago. thanks for the hugs thoughts and prayers. it doesn't look really good for dad's bladder right now. the dr said it is the worst he has ever seen in his career. he is a cancer specialist and the professor at the medical college. he says the bladder is probably going to have to come out even if it is not cancer. dad just turned 79 so it is pretty bad. will keep you posted as it develops.
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Old Oct 03, 2008, 08:48 AM
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awww(((bebop and dad))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Old Oct 03, 2008, 10:34 AM
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muffy thank you hon. yes I do know you care. please keep us in prayers and thoughts the next few weeks. it is going to be long for sure. sometimes I wonder if I will have the strength and courage to endure it.
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Old Oct 03, 2008, 03:55 PM
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(((Bop))))) you have so much more strength than you realize hon, these times are very difficult for you and you have a kind loving spirit to guide you through every difficult turn.. its ok to reach out and lean on your friends for support now.. sending you hope and love..
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Old Oct 04, 2008, 07:16 AM
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nowhere thank you hon. I think I needed to hear that today. thanks
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Old Oct 04, 2008, 07:42 AM
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muffy thank you hon. yes I do know you care. please keep us in prayers and thoughts the next few weeks. it is going to be long for sure. sometimes I wonder if I will have the strength and courage to endure it.
((bebop))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) it will come from inside you
I have watched you here ........ I know you will do all you can...
Your strenght and faith will get you threw this
All my prayer always
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