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Last edited by Erti; Feb 14, 2014 at 05:37 PM. |
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Thank you for this thread.
A lot of valuable information here. |
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Guy had full sz recovered and went on to med school to become a psychiatrist to help others...what he's talking about is why hope is important to recovery.
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One more thing I've noticed is an awful lot of recovered people can't just leave their dx behind....there is this strong need to help other people....most of the recovered people I've read about go into some sort of psychology, peer support or other advocacy. One guy was a mental health librarian. Elyn saks picked up a psych degree on top of her law degree...when you're actively seeing and helping people in real life there is less need to do it virtually...the rewards of irl interaction are more intense. Maybe that's why some of the highest level advocates don't do this online..they are already getting their fix somewhere else...I mean why go home and do what you already do at work all day?
Also you should ask atypical disaster about her psychiatrist who has sza...
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Yeah , grand , recovery seems to be an area full of conflicting stories.
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And I have to say when you first started this thread I thought you were trying to find the ocean and wanted a guide who'd been there but what you are looking for is much more rare you are looking for someone on foot who not only spent their lifetime walking to the ocean but took the trouble to walk back into town to help someone else even though plenty of people with cars had popped in to hand out maps. If I were that guy walking I don't think I would go back...why not see the mountains next instead? Or why not enjoy my new life at the beach? Why go back when I was given the same map you were and I made it to the ocean? Why spend the rest of my life walking back to help you when I already know there have been people helping you before and I have nothing to add but the fact that I saw it too just like all the people in cars. Is that going to make you feel better or worse? What you're saying is that a man who's walking will never make it to the ocean...what could I possibly do to convice you otherwise....the people in cars have already shown you photos of this man frolicking at the beach after walking there (16-38% cure rate)but you are asking for is video because you believe that man must have actually had a car all along...and even then if the video comes from someone in a car you might not believe it. You are asking the man to walk back and save you personally when it is so much harder for him to do that than the people in cars. What I'm saying is the path is the same for everyone and maps have been handed out in the form of books research papers blogs and videos ...your ability to walk the path might be different based on prognostic indicators, IQ etc. That doesn't mean there is no path or there is no ocean or that nobody simply walks to the ocean just because you yourself have never walked to the ocean or ever seen someone walking to the ocean. What your comment suggests is that not only can a man not walk to the ocean but he should be told that there is no way he will ever make it to the ocean because that is the harsh reality....he should settle for the duck pond at the end of the street because that's the best he can do. That's what used to happen....elyn saks working as a cashier or being locked away forever...no one is saying being a cashier is bad but if that is given as your only option I'm saying that is bad. No one is saying you have to win a Nobel prize or even have a mid-level career what they are saying is what we say to every little kid growing up...you know you can be president some day or an astronaut....no one actually does these things that I've ever met and yet they are being done...are you advocating that we tell our kids that they will never ever be what they want to be that they have no options...college is a waste of time for someone like you? I can't say I see the benefit of that. If you choose to believe that nobody with full sz recovers and you spread it around the only thing you will accomplish is crushing dreams, reestablishing the glass ceiling, putting the tree back in the road....except this time the people in cars will be gone...why waste time cutting the tree out of the road for those people who just chopped down another one to replace it. Instead we will simply airlift anyone with a car to the other side of the tree....those of us with cars will wonder why the tree is maintained by this group of people when it makes things harder for us and entirely stops their own progress. I have to say I don't understand why you would like to block the path...life is a journey and you may never make it to the ocean but think of everything you will see along the way.
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Well I'm only 18 and have had this for a while. So while I would not be the same person if I grew up without it, I'm going to try not to be some debbie downer that lets it define my life.
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It's hard sometimes, but I am not bipolar... I have bipolar. And even if I never "recover" that doesn't mean I can't lead a life worth living.
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