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Nov 01, 2015, 05:46 AM
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I am currently dating this girl who has a kid. I think that she could find a better boyfriend than me and think it's would be best if I call it off.
In my mind, I imagine that I could make this work but in reality, I can't. Can't support her and her daughter. Can't even support myself or think straight and never will. I hate going into public places, hanging out, and stuff. But that's what she likes to do. Yesterday, we went to her friends house but I sat outside the entire time. She wants to enjoy her life and I'm holding her back. Nothing is going for me. Don't have a job, family, no education, and I have a huge underbite that causes a speech impediment. I'm not built for relationships. It's my fault that I got into this. She wants a man not a boy. And that's fair.
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Nov 01, 2015, 08:15 AM
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Please be safe and don't do anything to harm yourself. If she is seeing you she must see something positive in this relationship. Not everyone likes to go to public places. You two can Compromise. Are you taking care of yourself such as see your doc and take meds?
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Nov 01, 2015, 11:40 AM
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Nov 01, 2015, 12:20 PM
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What do you mean? Are you seeing a doctor? You could talk to your doctor
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Nov 01, 2015, 01:25 PM
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Nov 01, 2015, 08:30 PM
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If you're MI, I'd say you'd need a dr. What do you mean by you have no necessities? You're suicide ideation should be enough.
Have you been open with this girl about your illness? Dx: BP2, PTSD, bulimia/anorexia Seroquel 300mgs Lamictal titrating at 75mgs Buspar 45mgs Ativan 1mg PRN Vyvance 50mg PRN |
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Nov 01, 2015, 10:22 PM
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Nov 01, 2015, 10:27 PM
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It sounds like your girl still wants to be with you. Relationships are give and take. She accepts you as you are as you do her. Don't put too much stock into not being able to provide for her and her daughter. That's not something you have to worry about yet. Money isn't everything afterall.
I think like the others...a good trip to the doctor could help you so much.
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Nov 01, 2015, 10:33 PM
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Running ones off we love always seems to be the quickest, easiest way out...but what then? I need a good docs visit myself, after all life is better on chemicals!
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Normal is an illusion... What is normal for the spider, is chaos to the fly..... 
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Nov 02, 2015, 11:10 AM
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Nov 02, 2015, 11:13 AM
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[QUOTE=Black#widow;4752988]Running ones off we love always seems to be the quickest, easiest way out...but what then? I need a good docs visit myself, after all life is better on chemicals
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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