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Old Feb 11, 2016, 07:29 PM
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He doesnt get it. Yea he told me he was excited about it. But i feel an overwhelming feeling. He said he was sorry but thats it.

I told him I dont like making things so public. For me personally, I rarely post things on Fb unless its really important to me. He posts like its nothing. I mean he posted once he jacks off in the morning and his whole family is on facebook Dating with Schizophrenia/Mental IllnessDating with Schizophrenia/Mental IllnessDating with Schizophrenia/Mental Illness I will never get that.

But maybe thats the nature of schiz?

Maybe it is? I mean you're posting here about masturbation so....it's kind of the same....
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Old Feb 11, 2016, 07:40 PM
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Maybe it is? I mean you're posting here about masturbation so....it's kind of the same....

Lol. But my whole family doesnt know about it and my friends dont. THATS the difference. Isnt it so much easier to tell people you dont know rather than people you do know?
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Old Feb 11, 2016, 08:53 PM
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I haven't dated in a long time
But I've had people ask to date me and I keep turning them down
I'm too picky and half the time all they really want is to have sex with me

I'm glad you're excited about dating

It osunds like the guy you're dating is pretty nice
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Old Feb 12, 2016, 02:40 AM
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So today I did something amazing.

Remember my "Good News" thread in 2013?

Well I have more good news.

I'm in a possible relationship right now for the first time in many years. I just have to say, you know, guys come and go, but masturbation is forever. This guy has Paranoid Schizophrenia. So he says. I know he has schizophrenia, I'm just not sure what type. I'll take him for his word though.

But today, I masturbated. It helped me to think back to when I really needed someone. It didn't cure me of anything this time like it cured me of my migraine in 2013. And it didn't get rid of the loneliness. It just got rid of the achy-ness in my loins. I feel poetic now.

Good news thread 2016!
Masturbation works. Try it sometime

Is anyone else dating? Sort of?
I don't date at the moment , just got too much going on , personally its just another thing I would have to invest time in , and I just cant handle that.
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Old Feb 12, 2016, 06:24 PM
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Dating tip #1: Get a puppy.
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Old Feb 12, 2016, 06:42 PM
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Dating tip #1: Get a puppy.

what about a kitten? Dating with Schizophrenia/Mental Illness
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Old Feb 13, 2016, 05:06 PM
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this guy said he could see us getting married Dating with Schizophrenia/Mental Illness
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Old Feb 13, 2016, 06:16 PM
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oh,,,,,,,, god thats a little. soon
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oh,,,,,,,, god thats a little. soon

no i agree lol

im just as surprised as you are
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Old Feb 13, 2016, 06:18 PM
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Why are you thinking about going out with this guy?
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Old Feb 13, 2016, 06:23 PM
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Why are you thinking about going out with this guy?

because hes really sweet and kinda attractive. he seems to respect me as a person and we are really good friends above all that.

hes just really awkward and idk what he wants. like in life and relationships.
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no i agree lol

im just as surprised as you are
i thought you would since youre moving much slower than he is, but holy smokes this guy is burning rubber here. is he inexperienced or something? i havent had a guy come on that strong since high school......
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Old Feb 13, 2016, 06:32 PM
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i thought you would since youre moving much slower than he is, but holy smokes this guy is burning rubber here. is he inexperienced or something? i havent had a guy come on that strong since high school......

yeaaaaa...he is inexperienced.

hes inexperienced in relationships and anything having to do with them.

it just made me really nervous.
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yeaaaaa...he is inexperienced.

hes inexperienced in relationships and anything having to do with them.

it just made me really nervous.
aah i hope its just that he doesnt know how off putting that can be for someone this soon. doesnt make it any less Weird
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because hes really sweet and kinda attractive. he seems to respect me as a person and we are really good friends above all that.

hes just really awkward and idk what he wants. like in life and relationships.
Well that sounds like a good reason, just don't let him pressure you into anything like this stuff you're saying about Facebook and that. Let him know where you stand and if he doesn't respect that and honour that then you have a problem.
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Well that sounds like a good reason, just don't let him pressure you into anything like this stuff you're saying about Facebook and that. Let him know where you stand and if he doesn't respect that and honour that then you have a problem.

youre right. thank you for that.

i fear his lack of relationships in his life has possibly made him desperate. hes very awkward and that has led him to saying and doing some awkward things. hes very self-deprecating whereas i find myself to have found confidence in my life and im not so much like that anymore. at least i believe that. weve been very good friends for about a year. so i made the first move on him. im just hoping by me doing that it hasnt made him feel completely lustful. idk.
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Sounds like he's just inexperienced and excited to be with you. If be stressed about the pressure but as long as you set boundaries it should be okay. Don't let him talk you into anything you're not ready for. I hope you can just enjoy the relationship.

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Sounds like he's just inexperienced and excited to be with you. If be stressed about the pressure but as long as you set boundaries it should be okay. Don't let him talk you into anything you're not ready for. I hope you can just enjoy the relationship.

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thank you for that!

im a bit stressed by the FB and marriage thing he said.
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Old Feb 14, 2016, 07:02 PM
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i got dumped.

or duped maybe.
he played around a lot with my emotions.

dumped on valentines day.
how the hell does this happen.

never catch a break do i? hah
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i got dumped.

or duped maybe.
he played around a lot with my emotions.

dumped on valentines day.
how the hell does this happen.

never catch a break do i? hah
Sorry to hear that. Did he give a reason?
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Old Feb 14, 2016, 07:16 PM
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he just said he didnt like me. but what confused me is he went back and forth. he was confused too.

idk where it went completely wrong but i started to really care about him a lot. ive liked him since almost the first day that we met. but i didnt really really like him until i saw how kind he was. he gave me a compliment. many. the first time we met. thats what drew me to him and drew me to make a move on him. maybe i moved too fast. ill never truly know i think.
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Old Feb 14, 2016, 07:33 PM
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he just said he didnt like me. but what confused me is he went back and forth. he was confused too.

idk where it went completely wrong but i started to really care about him a lot. ive liked him since almost the first day that we met. but i didnt really really like him until i saw how kind he was. he gave me a compliment. many. the first time we met. thats what drew me to him and drew me to make a move on him. maybe i moved too fast. ill never truly know i think.

Maybe he's not well at the moment and doesn't really know what he wants. Try not to beat yourself up about it too much it's his loss afterall
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Old Feb 14, 2016, 07:56 PM
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thanks Unsure123.

I really do thank you.

everyones been complimenting me this week. I think I have a low self esteem because I...its just hard for me to believe. but ill take it!
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He went from getting married to dumping you...sounds like a confused guy to me. It's his loss. I hope you feel better.

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