Dating with Schizophrenia/Mental Illness

no i agree. i actually had to talk to my peer support specialist since shes in group with me. and hes in group too.

Please just try to keep it nice; by nice I mean that it sounds like he is confused and need some space, so give it.... And wait, take this time to consider as well how good (or not) is this relationship for you. As others said, he is the one lossing. In the meantime you know what to do lol

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thank you for your advice!

i saw that guy today.

i said i liked roses and he waalked 4 or so miles to get me 2 roses from the store and a card.

im just so confused about what he wants but im giving him space.

Does he have any memory issues?

He likes you, feels bad, so he gave you something so you don't think he is a bad person. Plain and simple. You seem confused so just give it a while to think about it from different perspectives. Don't rush into these things. Plus you've got girl power.

i think he does. i mean he has schiz and sometimes he asks me the same question over and over again. not like all the time but sometimes.

but he seemed to remember that i asked him if he liked me over and over.

thanks ody.

i think i am rushing a bit because i havent been in a relationship in 8 years. not even been with a guy in that many years. i havent dated all those years.

Is he younger than you?

im 25 and hes 23

i admit it
ive been seeing this guy 3 times this week.

no sex
but all i can think about is sex
i think i have a masturbation addiction
im not kidding

Masturbation addiction isn't a problem unless it interferes with your life. Thinking about sex is only natural.

thanks
idk what to say
this week my dad said "dont get into trouble"
i said "like arrested???"
he said "that and sex!"

then tonight he comes home from work mad at me for not cleaning the cat box and says "youre too hung up on s**t thats not real and wont even take care of whats in the house". then he slammed his door and went to bed. ive been waiting hours to talk to him!

so i have that.

its like my dads so afraid im gonna have sex. and im in my bed like an exhibitionist sexting on ambien.

i admit
i asked him to jack off and i filmed him and i have been using it as masturbation material.

I think it's a normal thing to do, I bet a lot of people do this as well

Maybe you think is incorrect because is a new thing for you, your Dad is worried as (almost) every Dad is about sex life and as every parent is difficult for him to talk about it in the right natural way. Sex is not a bad thing, masturbation is the way to get to know your body, and the game with your "ex" is a normal thing as well (is better than pornography). Just try to be in control of it and try to put the task of the house first, when it's done, enjoy yourself

Very good points there.

yes my dad is worried. its new to me. im a virgin. so its new to him.

ughh yes my "ex"
idk what he is right now

I love my boyfriend for putting up with me. He's the only light in my life. He believes in me when I don't.

Did you get to talk to him, Is he still your ex? sorry, I just asume he was

Sorry he went to bed angry. He'll get over it. He's probably just worried about you getting hurt again.

I think that's pretty normal in this day and age. With all the technology we have now.

again?
probably.

urgh. yea probably

thats the thing.
he wont claim me as his gf.
but he hasnt changed his status about being in a relationship.
so idk whats going on.
i guess he is my ex.

"Like an exhibitionist sexting on ambien"

Ah newtus you're gas!

It doesn't have to straight away be bf gf. Me and my fiance were seeing each other for a good while before we even mentioned that. Just take it that you're both seeing each other. It's a very loose term that could mean a number of things.