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Old Feb 10, 2020, 08:11 PM
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I am beyond stressed out.

Fiancé is so extremely upset about this apt situation. He keeps asking me to get a number for him to call about the situation, yet keeps getting angry about it. The moment I turn around to google the number, he’s like “what’s the number? What’s the name of the place. I’ll call them myself”. Like fckn let me google it. You’re not even giving me a chance to. Fock man.

So stressed out. And I haven’t done crap for this advertisement, which should’ve been in last Wednesday. They keep emailing me And I’m bound by a contract for that, so I have absolutely gotta do at least the test video TODAY. Plus I gotta work on like 5 art pieces for the gallery before Saturday. Plus 10 other important but not urgent things I need to do for my writing career. Like get pieces out ASAP to medium and my blog.

I really wasn’t super stressed til he got upset. I talked to my mom and she said what I need to do but to not get upset about it because there’s a whole process. And fiancé is wanting to call corporate like right now, right now. I said “no, what we need to do is email or mail a letter so that there is a paper or digital trail”. I knew that already but my parents said that too. He’s gonna get us in a bind if he gets angry over the phone, where this is no trail, just his words.
What is the apartment situation?

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Old Feb 10, 2020, 08:17 PM
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Newtus, was the fiance hangry or something ((hugs))

BB, you just can't catch a break. ((hugs)) Just know that this is all temporary, and you have all your ducks in a row to stamp all of these out.

Can you get your pdoc or dentist to call in the ibuprofen to pick up at the pharmacy? Can your doctor also call in cold meds at the pharmacy? I can ask my roommate because she works at a doctors office, she's one step below a nurse.
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 08:17 PM
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Newtus, was the fiance hangry or something ((hugs))

BB, you just can't catch a break. ((hugs)) Just know that this is all temporary, and you have all your ducks in a row to stamp all of these out.

Can you get your pdoc or dentist to call in the ibuprofen to pick up at the pharmacy? Can your doctor also call in cold meds at the pharmacy? I can ask my roommate because she works at a doctors office, she's one step below a nurse.
I can see if they can , I think I’m just going to push through this though and go to my appointments tomorrow. I’ll ask for more ibuprofen , and I’ll try to get a walk in appointment at my GPs clinic Wednesday if I’m not feeling better by then
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 08:46 PM
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What is the apartment situation?


Well, initially before we signed the lease here they told us no deposits required. We got in, they wanted pet deposit cuz they didn’t know we had pets even tho we told them.

Also they asked us to pay with money orders for payment style plan. Which is weird.

Then the lady manager called me at work and said we need to hide our pets tomorrow because regional manager is coming to inspect all the apartments.

But there’s multiple violations within all this situation. So I’m writing to corporate and the city here.
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 08:58 PM
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Well, initially before we signed the lease here they told us no deposits required. We got in, they wanted pet deposit cuz they didn’t know we had pets even tho we told them.

Also they asked us to pay with money orders for payment style plan. Which is weird.

Then the lady manager called me at work and said we need to hide our pets tomorrow because regional manager is coming to inspect all the apartments.

But there’s multiple violations within all this situation. So I’m writing to corporate and the city here.
That's thorny. If it's a cat, I would never let them know, but yea, can't hide having a dog... Pet deposits are such a rip off. They should just charge you for new carpet and call it even it think. Instead they get greedy and want to up, up , up the price.

Money orders? wtf... that's unprofessional.
I wonder why the regional manager is inspecting. They have to give you a notice to go into your private residence.
about how many apartments does this place have all together?
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 09:02 PM
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I wonder if they are scared of the regional manager so much that they don't want a paper trail, because they initially thought they'd just let you slide in with no pet deposit, but now they have to orchestrate all of this under the regional managers nose so that their butts are covered, which just screws you over royaly… I bet this is the case... I'm sorry newt... ((hugs))
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 09:07 PM
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That's thorny. If it's a cat, I would never let them know, but yea, can't hide having a dog... Pet deposits are such a rip off. They should just charge you for new carpet and call it even it think. Instead they get greedy and want to up, up , up the price.


Money orders? wtf... that's unprofessional.

I wonder why the regional manager is inspecting. They have to give you a notice to go into your private residence.

about how many apartments does this place have all together?


It’s small. Maybe 100 units. They did give us notice. But like a week ago. Which is fine I guess. And yes I was thinking the same way when she asked for money orders.
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Well, initially before we signed the lease here they told us no deposits required. We got in, they wanted pet deposit cuz they didn’t know we had pets even tho we told them.

Also they asked us to pay with money orders for payment style plan. Which is weird.

Then the lady manager called me at work and said we need to hide our pets tomorrow because regional manager is coming to inspect all the apartments.

But there’s multiple violations within all this situation. So I’m writing to corporate and the city here.
Oh, ok. I hope the deposits aren't huge.
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 09:18 PM
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Oh, ok. I hope the deposits aren't huge.


300 per pet
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Old Feb 10, 2020, 09:20 PM
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300 per pet
Wow. That's a lot. :/
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Wow. That's a lot. :/


Yea it is...fiancé was super mad about today and tomorrow’s situation.
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Yea it is...fiancé was super mad about today and tomorrow’s situation.
Can one of you hide the pets during the inspection? I know they probably have that info already, but maybe it would get the pets off the immediate table.
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Can one of you hide the pets during the inspection? I know they probably have that info already, but maybe it would get the pets off the immediate table.


I am yea unfortunately
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If you knew when they were coming maybe you could put the pets in your car for a few minutes.
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If you knew when they were coming maybe you could put the pets in your car for a few minutes.


Idk when they are coming. I don’t think I should put my pets in the car tho. It’s below freezing here.
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Idk when they are coming. I don’t think I should put my pets in the car tho. It’s below freezing here.
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I've got a long day ahead of me. I have IOP til 1 then GP at 2:30 and class at 6, then a sleep study at 10 pm. I won't be released from the study til 4ish pm tomorrow.so I'm gonna miss IOP tomorrow but that's okay. The study is testing mostly for narcolepsy but they are gonna look at my sleep apnea also. I'm just stressed out right now. I need to stop at some point today and get some food to take with me to the sleep study. They have a fridge and microwave there, so it can be easy food. I left my house at 9 this morning and probably won't be home until 5 pm tomorrow. Ugh.
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I've got a long day ahead of me. I have IOP til 1 then GP at 2:30 and class at 6, then a sleep study at 10 pm. I won't be released from the study til 4ish pm tomorrow.so I'm gonna miss IOP tomorrow but that's okay. The study is testing mostly for narcolepsy but they are gonna look at my sleep apnea also. I'm just stressed out right now. I need to stop at some point today and get some food to take with me to the sleep study. They have a fridge and microwave there, so it can be easy food. I left my house at 9 this morning and probably won't be home until 5 pm tomorrow. Ugh.


Sounds super busy....
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I asked my doctor for a sleep test and he said that I don't need one.

We all know that I need one lol..
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