[Blubberman]

I'm so nervous, one teacher wants to talk to my parents to tell them about how good I'm doing lately, problem is, i can't even talk to that man, he says he feels identified with me sometimes, and I think he might know that I am not totally 'right', everytime I'm next to him I feel nervous, like reminding myself that I'm keeping things too much to myself (Guess i feel identified with him too) and I start to blush and getting even more anxious about my mood, I manage to control it in class, but I just don't want to walk in and start blushing like an idiot because dont want to embarrass myself.
But there are even more minor problems: he may even think I'm a lesbian (Yeah... LOL I guess) I have solid proof he either way thinks I'm BI/Lesbian or that I've fell for him. The thing that bothers me is that I'm not any of those, if I was I would just prove it and stop faking things, I'm just obsessed with that man because I feel like he actually understands me. But he doesn't.
Any tips in case I have to meet him with my parents?

[Welf]

Originally Posted by Blubberman

I'm so nervous, one teacher wants to talk to my parents to tell them about how good I'm doing lately, problem is, i can't even talk to that man, he says he feels identified with me sometimes, and I think he might know that I am not totally 'right', everytime I'm next to him I feel nervous, like reminding myself that I'm keeping things too much to myself (Guess i feel identified with him too) and I start to blush and getting even more anxious about my mood, I manage to control it in class, but I just don't want to walk in and start blushing like an idiot because dont want to embarrass myself.
But there are even more minor problems: he may even think I'm a lesbian (Yeah... LOL I guess) I have solid proof he either way thinks I'm BI/Lesbian or that I've fell for him. The thing that bothers me is that I'm not any of those, if I was I would just prove it and stop faking things, I'm just obsessed with that man because I feel like he actually understands me. But he doesn't.
Any tips in case I have to meet him with my parents?

It seems that for whatever reasons this person plays an important role or figure in your life. you should try seeing it positively! I believe honesty is the best policy. So maybe if you tell him that he makes u nervous because of the good reasons he does, then he'll take it as a compliment and your anxiety may go away when it is understood. This will help you not worry whether you seem anxious or trying to hide it.

[Miswimmy1]

I think just be honest and genuine.

[Blubberman]

Originally Posted by Welf

It seems that for whatever reasons this person plays an important role or figure in your life. you should try seeing it positively! I believe honesty is the best policy. So maybe if you tell him that he makes u nervous because of the good reasons he does, then he'll take it as a compliment and your anxiety may go away when it is understood. This will help you not worry whether you seem anxious or trying to hide it.

Perfect idea! Thank you very much.