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Apr 19, 2010, 10:11 PM
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i looked up to one of my friends, he said i was his little brother and he would protect me. today he told me " the only reason im dealing with you is because i don't want to deal with you killing yourself"
 (he triggered me so bad. i don't want to let him win and si, i don't want to let him be important and do something to myself because of him. but if i can't trust my so called brother, i just don't know anymore. this weekend my best friend was a jerk to me AGAIN! but i let it slide and of course when i needed help guess who wasnt there 
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel Like Im close to something real I wanna find something ive wanted all along Somewhere I belong? he who does not feel me is not real to me Therefore he doesn't exist So poof...vamoose you sob What's wrong with the world, mama People livin' like they ain't got no mamas I think the whole world addicted to the drama Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma And to discriminate only generates hate And when you hate then you're bound to get irate, can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now. i'm not afraid to take a stand Everybody come take my hand We'll walk this road together, through the storm Whatever weather, cold or warm Just let you know that, you're not alone Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony |
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Apr 19, 2010, 11:23 PM
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Try to look at the positive of what he said. Obviously he really cares about you if he doesn't want you to kill yourself. Someone who didn't care wouldn't deal with you for any reason.
Btw....I'm sorry you're having such a rough time with friends! I have trouble with friends too. Try not to let what other people say bother you! I hope you are okay! 
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Apr 20, 2010, 10:48 AM
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I'm sorry D & D. Either he was having a bad day or maybe he isn't that dependable? You just can't let other people determine how you feel about yourself. I have a filter and I definitely use it. I decide about my self worth. I don't leave this important job to others.
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Apr 20, 2010, 03:26 PM
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Does not sound like your friend knows how to be a friend. What he told you was selfish and very unsupportive. If you spend some time on here reading the posts, you will get the idea of what is supportive and what is not. Keep reading and keep posting.
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Apr 20, 2010, 08:56 PM
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Clearly they are not good friends Des. You are worth much more than that. Maybe the person you look up to was stressed out or maybe he is simply not someone you should look up to. If it helps i think of you as a best friend and a brother Des.
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Apr 20, 2010, 09:53 PM
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i deleted his number and stuff, he's not gonna get to me again. Last time he had 'roid rage on me
he is really not dependable at all so i guess i just had bad judgement there. im doing better now, and i did talk to my friend who wasn't helpful this weekend. some stuff was going on so i guess that was ok. but i did calm down and stuff. thanks for listening 
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel Like Im close to something real I wanna find something ive wanted all along Somewhere I belong? he who does not feel me is not real to me Therefore he doesn't exist So poof...vamoose you sob What's wrong with the world, mama People livin' like they ain't got no mamas I think the whole world addicted to the drama Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma And to discriminate only generates hate And when you hate then you're bound to get irate, can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now. i'm not afraid to take a stand Everybody come take my hand We'll walk this road together, through the storm Whatever weather, cold or warm Just let you know that, you're not alone Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony |
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Apr 21, 2010, 10:04 AM
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Very good problem solving D & D!!!!!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Apr 22, 2010, 12:51 PM
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Take care of yourself, d&d.
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