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Apr 17, 2011, 04:30 PM
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Today I got upset and my mum came in my room and she asked me what was wrong. I told her that someone said something to me which I didn't like. My mum saw a magazine article and she showed me it. the magazine article was about a girl who self harmed. I saw a girl's body with scars in the magazine and my mum said "do you want to look like her?". After, I spoke about getting help. So now I have to phone the doctors which I be happy to do and then my mum will go with me. I think my mum has realised about self harm by reading a magazine article. I hope everything goes well.
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 lastyearisblank, Miss Laura, nice girl, Rose76, thine_self_untrue
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Apr 17, 2011, 04:43 PM
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Hello, happycheeks. I shall pray you get the help you need.
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Apr 17, 2011, 05:04 PM
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Apr 17, 2011, 05:50 PM
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Oh, good for you......and mum is supportive as well!!!
Hugs and more hugs; Dee
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#5
Apr 18, 2011, 10:14 AM
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Update: I booked an appointment to see the doctor tommorrow about my self harm. My mum is also coming with me. My mum was happy with me because she was pleased I booked an appointment and she hugged me as well. I thought my mum would be horrible to me about all this self harm issue. She told me: have you cut yourself today? and I replied no. Just wanted to make an update to tell you people about what is happening.
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Apr 18, 2011, 10:31 AM
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That's very good news (((happycheeks))) - sounds like you and your mom had a very productive and meaningful conversation - wonderful.
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Apr 18, 2011, 10:32 AM
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Apr 18, 2011, 10:35 AM
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this is wonderful! I'm so happy for you and hope the doctor's appointment will be helpful =)
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Apr 18, 2011, 10:37 AM
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Apr 18, 2011, 10:41 AM
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Ahhh! I knew I there was a reason I checked up on you!
I'm so happy you're finally getting the help you need!
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Apr 18, 2011, 11:17 AM
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Apr 18, 2011, 01:06 PM
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A step at a time; a day at a time. I wish you the best, brave one.
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Apr 19, 2011, 07:07 AM
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Apr 19, 2011, 07:08 AM
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The doctor's appointment is at half past four today. I'm feeling nervous. I hope the doctor can help me. I also have you lot here to support me as well.
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Apr 19, 2011, 07:13 AM
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I'm happy for you happy cheeks. . . . i hope you get the help you need. . . . may god bless u. . . .
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Apr 19, 2011, 07:14 AM
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don't be nervous. . . . everything will go just fine. . . . ((happycheeks))
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Apr 19, 2011, 07:33 AM
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I hope the doctor can help me. I'll update you lot after I've been to the doctors.
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Apr 19, 2011, 12:12 PM
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Today at the doctors went well. The doctor was understanding and nice. I showed the doctor my cuts and bruises. He asked me why I hurt myself? He also asked me if I sleeping well or if I eating well. He was a good doctor. I'm going to get counselling hopefully and he gave me citalopram to lift my mood up. I have to come back in two weeks to get more. I'm also getting along with my mum
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| Miss Laura, PleaseHelp, turquoisesea
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Apr 19, 2011, 02:37 PM
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Hello, happycheeks. The journey to a better life begins. Getting everything sorted will be difficult. Perseverance is a key. Good luck.
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Apr 19, 2011, 04:00 PM
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Thanks
You know what.... No one apart from a few people are actually happy about me. I might as well not bothered to get help. I might as well just ****ing kill myself. No one gives a crap about me. |
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Apr 19, 2011, 04:10 PM
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You are trying to get better for yourself. What YOU think is important. Part of your work is to recognize you are a valuable person. Please do not allow others to define you.
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Apr 19, 2011, 04:39 PM
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The doctors went well and you seemed to be feeling hopeful. Lets pretend if no ones cares about you(even though that can't be true)...you still deserve to live. That's the way I feel - I live for my own contentment, not on the condition that others like me. You'll start to feel this way once your self esteem gets better.
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| Miss Laura
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Apr 19, 2011, 04:57 PM
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I'm very happy for you! I'm not dealing with your type of problems, but I myself am making my first appointment tomorrow with a T. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!!!
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| lynn P., Miss Laura
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Apr 19, 2011, 05:06 PM
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(((((((happycheeks))))))
What happened after you went to see the doctor?? I was so happy reading the first couple of pages of this thread because it's all such good news. I'm not sure what happened to make you feel so bad again, but it really is GREAT that you are getting help. I know there is no "magic cure" and you will continue to have some bad feelings from time to time as you work through this, but please don't lose hope!! You are doing absolutely the right thing by getting help. And it WILL help you. Just, not overnight. But you WILL get there ((((((((((happycheeks)))))))))) Many hugs to you
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Apr 19, 2011, 05:14 PM
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Hey HappyCheeks way to go..... congrats
You took a VERY brave step As everyone on here has said... you are getting better for YOU no one else ok!! Be kind to yourself as you deserve it MissingMyOwnSelf.... Way to go to you too you have took a huge step too
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