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#1
Oct 22, 2011, 09:07 PM
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I know that this may sound so odd, but sometimes during a certain time of the month (of my monthly cycle) where as I desire a true love so badly, I want to harm myself cause I have not had a guy for many years and I feel what is the use of thinking about a true love when no guy has shown interest in me. I am so angry at myself for even thinking these desires for a guy that I want to punish myself for this. I dwell on this (SI myself cause of wanting something that I really don't think I can have, a true love).
I have to say I feel so very odd for saying this but i had to let this out cause it has been on my mind for sometime now (and my only friend doens't really listen to me). |
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Oct 22, 2011, 10:23 PM
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-hugs-
I am really lonely too, to understate it, so I know what that can feel like. I have no solutions, but my thoughts are with you..  Please try not to harm yourself..
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Oct 22, 2011, 11:23 PM
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Loneliness can cause this, or at least it sort of does for me. It's hard being alone. but Please know that there is someone out there that will listen.... somewhere out there.
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Oct 23, 2011, 09:08 AM
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Hello Clouds and Sun.
Loneliness is never for ever. Feeling the way you do during you're cycle is natural; you're body is talking to itself. Don't give in, never give up hope (hope is a loose word), we do not 'hope' for love; we deserve it and we will get it in the end. Self Harm is a trigger to find something that's missing in life (I used to self harm, so I can kinda understand). Have faith in what you have to offer. If you feel so much pain at being alone (or out of love), then you have the 'most' to offer. When you find you're true love (believe me), I will be envious. You're love at what you need is you're power to gain what you deserve. I hoped this helped. Look after you're self. (remember, you're love is you're power to move in to a new world of being loved in return), please don't give up on you're self. You deserve to be loved. |
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#5
Oct 24, 2011, 08:29 AM
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Do you feel a little better after getting that out? I agree with the others that this is about loneliness which is very painful.
Do you have a therapist?
__________________
Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Oct 24, 2011, 02:17 PM
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Hi there Sannah, yes I feel better that I got this out in the open, I want to get better.
No sadly my T had turned out for the worse. See the state was paying for her to see me since I don't ahve a job, but once she found out that the state could only pay for a certain number of visits, she became very cold towards me. That hurt a lot cause here I was pouring my heart out to her thinking she cared but I was wrong.  I do see a doctor who prescribes meds. |
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Oct 24, 2011, 03:17 PM
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Quote:
__________________
Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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