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Dec 28, 2011, 01:38 PM
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Ok so this christmas sucked! sure i got nice gifts and got to hang out with the people i love but the urge is so strong! Last night i pulled out my razor and just ran it across my leg just to feel, i didn't actually cut....and now its today and i really want to do it again, i cant stand it here. My mom is dating an abusive alcoholic and i just i cant take it, i dont do anything right for him. if i dont go downstairs he complains i dont hang out with the family enough and when i do come downstairs he starts an argument and then i just go upstairs so i dont have to deal with him! I honestly dont know what to do right now, i really want to cut.......
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Dec 29, 2011, 12:24 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time. I don't have any advice, but wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
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Dec 29, 2011, 12:38 AM
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Same here...hope you stay safe & can fight the urge in some way. *hugs*
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Dec 31, 2011, 11:17 PM
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hi, it is good that you actually didn't cut. have you tried any alternatives to cutting to see if they help?
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#5
Dec 31, 2011, 11:30 PM
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Can you talk to your mom about his behavior? Is he critical of your mom too or is it mostly you? Any chance you could spend more time at your dad's house?
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The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. anonymous |
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#6
Jan 01, 2012, 01:23 PM
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my dad raped me when i was 4.. so thats out..no mom doesnt do anything...
im currently knitting right now, i have no idea what tho hugs thank you guys for all ur help <3 rumples |
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#7
Jan 01, 2012, 01:30 PM
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Keep strong and distract yourself. If it helps, keep running that blade over your skin but not cutting. It would give the cutting sensation i guess but i have never done that. Good luck x
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#8
Jan 01, 2012, 02:29 PM
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dear rumples
i'm so glad you come here and talk with us,, i hope it helps with the urges, and maybe the old man as well,,, it won't be long now, you can find another home, one of your own choosing ~~ best wishes,, Gus 
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#9
Jan 02, 2012, 11:05 AM
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Have you talked to your mom about how his behavior affects you?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#10
Jan 02, 2012, 12:05 PM
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she doesnt do anything, ive tried...
he's pretty good today but alas the day has just started |
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