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i dont post here very often , as i know my wife can read what i write. but doesnt seem to be here a lot so here i am.
i have a problem, i have been feeling very low for a few weeks now and alone with that comes to ideas of self harm. my problem is i have no one irl to talk too, if i tell my wife she will get all upset and i will lose the freedom around the house that i have, (eg going to the shops on my own or being left home alone) . my cpn took me off his books back in november due to an inprovment. i dont know what to do .............
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can you go back to cpn? or maybe ask doc for to see a counsellor? sorry i'm not very good at advice, just want you to know i understand and care.
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Hi TRM, do you have a therapist?
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#4
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no they removed me from the local mental health team
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Why? (If you don't mind me asking).
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#7
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they removed me from the team because i was improving
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((((TRM)))) ... this sux, it's like a punishment for daring to get a little better.
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Yeah, can you contact them again? See what other options that you have?
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i would like to contact them but then my wife would find out that im so close to hurting myself
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This isn't a short term sort of "fix" but it is something that has helped me is local peer support groups. I don't know of any support groups for SI, but there are lots for depression (I looked at your profile) so finding a local peer support group for depression could give you a lot of help. It's a good reason to get out of the house, and to be around some very supportive people. I will post the links to DBSA and NAMI web pages that will help you find a local support group if you are interested.
http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/Page...rt_findsupport http://www.nami.org/template.cfm?sec...our_Local_Nami
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thank you mike j , a support group sounds like it could help , i will look into groups in my area
also thank you for the links, but im in the uk
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Why are you putting yourself between a rock and a hard place? How long do you think that you can keep this from her? You need to contact the team.
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