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Aug 14, 2012, 02:18 PM
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My mom saw fresh scars on my arm (stupid me, why do i keep cutting there?) and demanded my knives and razors again. I refused and she promptly advised me to 'do it right' the next time i set a blade to my skin. She wants me to stop the SI but all she does is trigger me.
Next my brother's girlfriend told me that she doesn't want me to spend time around aariyanna (my only neice, who i've taken care of and loved since she was born and who is now 6) because i'm 'no longer a good role model' because i cut and w/e. Yep, just another wonderful day in the life of me ._.
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Aug 14, 2012, 05:19 PM
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I'm sorry and have no words of comfort I know that it must be very hard to be told you aren't a good role model to your niece.
Please try and stay safe. LoneWolfie |
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Aug 15, 2012, 05:22 AM
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A lot of people in this forum seem to be pissed at their moms lately... so please know that you're not alone!
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| Line
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#4
Aug 15, 2012, 08:22 AM
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Hi Line, do you have a therapist?
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Aug 15, 2012, 09:29 AM
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Aug 15, 2012, 09:38 AM
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I am sorry this is happening and that your brother's girlfriend said that to you. I don't know if this is good advice or not, but if it were me, I would check to see if your brother even knows she said this to you. She is not your family (yet?) but he is, and if it is HIS daughter, IMO, she has no place to tell you whether or not you can be around Aaryaana! (beautiful name, BTW)
I hope that wasn't too forward of me, if so or if I offended, I apologize! I really feel for you...
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Aug 15, 2012, 09:53 AM
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Otherwise, you make a valid point. Maybe if i can gather up enough courage i'll ask. Thnx 4 the advice 
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