triggers

my moms been triggering me a lot becouse i stay in my room and i stay in my room becouse my mom triggers me and i am realy trying not to cut so trying to stay in my room to get away from triggers is the only way i know of i am dealing with family friends death and that brings up a lot for me becouse it was the same as my cusen both 21 and of drugs my T gave me a schedule for my day but i cant seam to follow it i feel useless and a failure

Tomboy, my mom is really annoying too! I know exactly how you feel, please know that you are not alone and that there are other 15 yr old girls out there who don't like their moms so much (e.g. me). I don't know what else to say, please take care!

- AJ

So you are talking to your T about these triggers?

((((Tom)))) I stayed in due to triggers...and my mother would put me down for it when I did. She could never grasp the fact that I felt safe there. Nor would it occur to her that she had any responsibility in that. I hope you will be able to talk about this with your T so you can find some support and relief. Hugs to you.

I stay in too; I mean, I go out for work and such, but if I don't have anything after, it's straight home for me. And I still get crap for it too from my mom and I don't even live with her anymore!! Not that this helps, but just wanted you to know that you're in good company. On a serious note, I agree with Rose, def address this with your T.

i have told my T about this

She hasn't been helpful then?

she has but it still realy hard to deal with

You're not a failure. Just a person who has some challenges... just like the rest of us. You may want to try and find a comparison that your mom could understand that being away from her is helpful for you.