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Old Nov 18, 2012, 02:33 PM
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i been pulling away from my mom and dad becouse they both trigger me a lot and now my mom is saying im rude and stuff my OCD been acting up so when things move i freak out and SI idk what to do i feel worthless and a failure and maby people would be better without me
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 02:45 PM
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hang in there teebs hun
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 04:57 PM
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i can honestly tell you i would be devastated without you. dont do anything please, we all love you and support you. youre not alone. you can do this. email me anytime.
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 10:03 AM
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Tomboy, what are your parents doing that trigger you? Do you understand that OCD is an attempt to gain control over your anxiety? (You think that if everything is under control then it will lessen your anxiety).
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 12:11 PM
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i dont realy want to talk about what they do to trigger me and i kinda do but i feel everything needs to stay in there place and if they arent in the same place it can never go back
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 01:41 PM
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This sounds like a good thing to discuss with T.
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 02:06 PM
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i have told my T and she understands it but my mom and dad dont
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 10:22 AM
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You T isn't working with your parents?
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 10:51 AM
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no my T dont work with my mom and dad my dad dont even know i see a T
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 10:57 AM
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Would your mom be willing to work with the T? (Concerning your needs).
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 11:47 AM
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i think my mom just wants to know what i talk about in T and even if my mom did idk if she would even try my mom said she dont think im trying in T
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 08:17 PM
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Would you ever talk to your T about getting her involved in your therapy? I think that parents involved in their kid's therapy is essential.
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 08:33 PM
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i have but i think my mom would kinda go to much into it
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((Hugs)) tomboy hope your okay xx
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 07:24 PM
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i think my mom would kinda go to much into it
This is something that can be worked with. If you fear this, maybe one of the issues with your mom is that you 2 have enmeshed boundaries? You are having issues because of how you are parented. It must be worked on.
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