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May 15, 2014, 04:00 PM
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I know many of you will understand. My "friend" never gossips, lies or betrays me, never hurts me unless I'm guiding this "friend" exactly how to hurt me.
 yes a good "friend"
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May 16, 2014, 06:37 AM
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Hi fuzzybear,
I hope you are doing okay.. Remember, that love is not supposed to hurt... Remind your friend to be nice to you and please be kind to yourself... I remembrr you and still care... Gentle hugs if you want them. -wysteria blue
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May 16, 2014, 10:04 AM
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Fuzzy, it's good you have such a good friend. I'm glad for you most people here aren't that lucky.
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May 16, 2014, 10:30 AM
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Chose your friends wisely.. and how to play with your friend even more wisely.
*HUGS to u |
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May 16, 2014, 10:33 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but do you put "friend" in quotations because it's really a metaphor for something more closely aligned with Self Injury? That is my sense anyway.
Please take care. 
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May 16, 2014, 10:37 AM
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yes, you've got it
 Also, I'm a survivor of abusive relationships... Quote:
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May 16, 2014, 10:42 AM
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Hi Fuzzy, all kinds of different "friends" out there and if this one at times does for you what absolutely nothing/no-one can do...........just maybe turn that way as little as you can and try not to let that "friend" hurt you "too much", hey??
But I would say that you so deserve friends that aren't going to hurt (and true friends shouldn't hurt), and friends that take away the/any pain as much as they possibly can, and allow you to "breathe again". I so hope that you've got some friends like that to turn to, who could gradually take the place of the one you feel you need right now, but if not, please let us try to fill that gap. Here's to friends who are better than "good"!! Alison P.S Really hope I'm interpreting your thread the way it's meant!! |
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May 18, 2014, 08:35 PM
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(((((((fuzzypaws!)))))))
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May 19, 2014, 01:10 PM
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 Blessings to Fuzzy     
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May 19, 2014, 01:26 PM
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Sorry about that Fuzzybear, I sort of feel the same way about a friend of mine right now.
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May 21, 2014, 10:53 AM
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Hi Fuzzy,
Been thinking about you lately... You know my T, who is also a soecial friend reminds me that all 'friends' are not equal. I can share more of myseld, my attentiin, my time and my affections with some more thsn others. Which ones are trustworthy, keep confidences, are there when I need them, and want me to be the best that I can be...those are the ones I want to be with the most. Others are more acquaintances, or even maybe those I cannot trust and with whom I shouldn't share much with or spend much time with. Maybe you could think about those in your life that you really want to spend your time and energy and trust with... Just a thought. Those that have big hearts and are more sensitive to emotions find this to be a harder distinction to make. And you have a VERY big heart and never want to hurt others. But you also sometimes have to work a little harder at protecting your gifts. Huggles, WB
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May 21, 2014, 01:10 PM
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Thanks so much Wysteria, for your kindness and insight. It means a lot
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