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Dec 03, 2014, 03:35 PM
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Long story short. My girlfriend of half a year has a crush on a staff member at her school. I didn't mind it to much at first, but this staff member seems to be all my girlfriend talks about lately. It's gotten to the point that I had to ask her not to bring up this person, she still does.
Also a male friend of mine has a sexual interest in her. She allows him to call her 'sexy' and make sexual passes at her. After an argument between us, she has finally asked him to stop. Today she didn't text me after she got out of school (which she always texts me after school). When I texted her and asked her why, she said that she was distracted and forgot to text me. Why? Because she was talking to the staff member she has a crush on. Then she went on and on talking about this person!! I am trying my hardest, but I really just wonna cut myself right now! I have been running a knife against me skin for about 10 minutes now! I can't do this anymore! Someone please help!!!
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Dec 03, 2014, 04:38 PM
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Often times to cut out bad habits/ addictions you need to cut the bad out of your life... It doesn't sound like she is right for you. You obviously want someone more committed and it just doesn't sound like she will be that person for you.
Please don't cut, in the end it only hurts you, and the relief you will get from your feelings are only temporary and those feelings will still be there once the damage is done. Can you work out your anger and pain in a different way? Go to the gym, a walk or run? I think ultimately if she continues to choose to hurt you, you will have to let her go. |
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Dec 03, 2014, 04:53 PM
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I know it must really be hard to deal with her constant chatter about this staff member. It is an infatuation and will pass. You just need to figure out if you can stand by and let it run it's course and still be at peace. There isn't much you can do about it at this point unless you want to call off the relationship.
Regardless of what she does, you need to stay strong in your fight against self-harm. And I know how hard that can be. I've been there. Don't let someone else affect how you treat yourself. Hang in there.
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Dec 29, 2014, 06:56 AM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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