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Jun 08, 2007, 10:53 AM
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Could someone give me a useful reason NOT to cut??
wtf is worng with this world? I hate life    
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Jun 08, 2007, 10:54 AM
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Useful is pretty relative...but I'll give it a try...it doesn't stop the pain inside. Talk to us - what is going on?
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:03 AM
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Like direction said, we cut and it's only a temporary fix, it doesn't get rid of the pain..
We will listen if you want to talk (((fuzzy))) |
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:04 AM
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People!!!! Why don't they use their intelligence, and if they have to project their crap onto others, then they should GET A THERAPIST!!!!
Therapists are trained to deal with crap that DOESNT BELONG TO THEM!!!!! Thanks for your reply  This is about family members... I wish I could freakin divorce them all And... NO I am NOT a "nice person" I am NOT a doormat for people to wipe their ****** feet on!!!!!
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:08 AM
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Keep thinking temporary fix...let's go for something better...
Family lives with you or are you on your own? I agree you shouldn't be a doormat...assertive is what we are looking for...
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:11 AM
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Thanks ((((((((((((( asylumgardens ))))))))))))))
I typed a longer reply but my connection went down.... 
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:16 AM
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They don't live with me but they're very intrusive
..... and very closed minded Thanks for writing, I'm feeling a bit safer for now...
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:30 AM
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So kind of all over the board...?
Well since you are not living with them you can make a list of boundaries...and one by one as they are broken...you'll be able to tell that family member. Example: Family member calls you a name. "If you say 'blank' I will not be able to continue this phone conversation." Next time it happens (as it will). "I'm sorry but I'm unable to continue this conversation - but I would love to talk to you again when your able not to 'blank'" Anyways I have no idea if this even comes close to your issues...I think when family are toxic, you need to set the boundaries for you written down and one by one deal with them as they come up...
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Jun 08, 2007, 11:38 AM
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Thanks Direction... I'll try firming up my boundaries with them more....... and I'll write my chosen boundaries down, so I don't forget when they are trying to hurt me...
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Jun 08, 2007, 01:23 PM
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(((((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))))))
sorry no usefull information for you but nobody deserves to be treted like a doormat please feel free to vent to us abourt these relations that dare to upset our fuzzy     
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Jun 08, 2007, 05:10 PM
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Thanks so much hon
((((((((((((((( Kaheryn )))))))))))))))
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Jun 08, 2007, 07:47 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))))))))))
Family sure can stink sometimes eh? I agree with others saying to make up a list of "boundaries" ... they have no right to walk all over you like that. Please say safe ... and you know you can PM me anytime right??? xo jacq
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Jun 09, 2007, 11:48 AM
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Thanks dear jacq
((((((((((((((((( jacq ))))))))))))))))))
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