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Jun 29, 2008, 06:18 PM
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Shouldn't I feel happy or proud or something?
I resisted my urges last night, it was the first time in a really long time I didn't self injure or drink. Yet I feel nothing, I'm actually kinda of sad I didn't do those things. This makes me so confused, I don't get it, am I so depenedent on these things that now when I resist them I feel empty or sad I didn't give in? Is this normal? Help somebody I'm so confused!!! |
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#2
Jun 29, 2008, 07:20 PM
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U ok silver?
its normal not to feel proud, i dont feel anything when I think I really should sometimes... but try to give yourself some credit for it, it was a big deal for you, then just give yourself a well deserved treat! and of course its normal, well done on resisting them. babyg xXx
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Jun 29, 2008, 08:48 PM
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sometimes it's like losing a friend. that really sucks.
eventually it sorta sinks in that this friend isn't so good for you. you'll need to leave this one behind as you grow and change. but it takes time....change is really hard. you did REALLY good last night being nice to yourself! take care, S |
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Jun 29, 2008, 09:38 PM
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Silversparrow~
 I agree wholeheartely with Slippers. It is like losing a friend, but one that is not good for You. That leaves you sad, lonely (right!)after all they were there when you needed help, when you were upset, dependable. BUT they Hurt & Damage Your Heart and Your very Soul, Your Essence. You are precious & are to be treated beautifully. I'm Proud of You for resisting. Keep On Going!! Take Good Care! mlpHolmes |
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Jun 29, 2008, 10:34 PM
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(((((((((((Silversparrow)))))))))))))))))
I agree with everyone here. It is normal. I'm proud of you, regardless.
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Jun 29, 2008, 11:03 PM
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(((((Silver)))))
Way to go getting through yesterday safely! When I gave up burning and cutting (well, tried to anyway), I had very similar feelings. It is a lot like losing a friend; and in some sick way, it feels like you're taking care of yourself through SI. BUT YOU MOST DEFINITELY ARE NOT!!!!! That's one of the mental distortions that typifies depression: believing that you deserve to be hurt. You definitely don't deserve to be hurt. Take care of yourself, and keep up the awesome work!   J
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Jun 30, 2008, 01:38 AM
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((((((((((((sliver)))))))))))))
it's like walking away from an abusive friend or partner. it is still sad. but good for you
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#8
Jun 30, 2008, 11:57 AM
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Thank you everyone, I never thought of it that way,
I didnt' realize that when I self injure or drink it's like I belive I'm taking care of myself through that, now I see it. It is like losing a friend when you try and stop. Thank you everyone for responding, it really helped me see my self injury in a new light and understand it alot better!! |
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Jun 30, 2008, 03:52 PM
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(((((((((((((silver!!!))))))))))))
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#10
Jun 30, 2008, 11:51 PM
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((((((((((((((( Silver ))))))))))))))))
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