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Aug 07, 2008, 11:44 AM
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my urges are getting worse.....ive been seeing the therapist but the cutting is not going away. and in a way why should i have to get rid of the only way i know how to deal- all i want to do is cut today. nothing helps not sure why i am even posting this, don't bother to respond im just stupid and it really doesnt matter anymore- ive been like this for years and years too many to count- in a way cutting is like my so called friend in a way cuz it takes the pain away when im in such emotional pain or brings pain on when i need to feel something. i know im just a piece of **** but no one really cares if i cut or not so why not?
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Aug 07, 2008, 12:06 PM
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I care if you cut. I care if you're hurting too.
(((((((((((((((purplebutterfly))))))))))))))))) How is your T helping you deal with this? Maybe not enough focus on this issue... or maybe you need another T who has training in this area (I know not all Ts, like people, understand self-injury). You are not stupid or bad or anything like that. You're hurting and struggling. Hold off, just an hour at a time if you can do that... I know you can do this. 
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Aug 07, 2008, 03:03 PM
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bad bad bad person i am why why why do i do it- i hate me i hate it i want out but for a bit it felt really good and now im back to feeling really bad-
 
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Aug 07, 2008, 03:19 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
purplebutterfly said: why should i have to get rid of the only way i know how to deal- cutting is like my so called friend in a way cuz it takes the pain away when im in such emotional pain or brings pain on when i need to feel something. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Learn a different way to deal? Learn how to deal with the emotions?
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#5
Aug 07, 2008, 03:31 PM
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Easier said than done. maybe i just need to stop talking about it.
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Aug 07, 2008, 04:03 PM
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Easier said than done, I agree. Keep posting and expressing how you feel
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Aug 07, 2008, 04:06 PM
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Stopping talking about it won't help. Purple, do you think that you are capable of helping yourself?
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#8
Aug 07, 2008, 04:10 PM
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PM me if you need to talk, friend
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Aug 07, 2008, 06:21 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( purplebutterfly )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
It's so hard, isn't it?? I'm sorry you're hurting.
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#10
Aug 07, 2008, 06:59 PM
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We care purple, we really do. You need to try and turn to something else to deal with things hun - x
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Aug 07, 2008, 08:16 PM
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im sorry... i know how you feel...
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#12
Aug 08, 2008, 11:01 AM
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Thanks for everyones thoughts on this.
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