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when she wanted to make the lesson stick it was with a strap, a belt with the buckle end, or a switch from the willow which we had to pick out and bring her- so it had to be a good sturdy switch or we got worse. So one of these parts is still doing the whipping to teach us a lesson- Don't think for one minute you can get anything for yourself- I made you and I can destroy you-you don't exist without me and no one else would have you can see what a worthless little ****************you are.! I'm trying not to listen- trying not to bring her the belt and get it over with so the pressure stops. . .
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(((((((kathyanita)))))))))
You don't deserve pain. There is goodness in you. I hope you stay gentle with yourself. |
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i cant shut her up
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This is so sad
![]() *safe hugs* if wanted You are NOT worthless. You deserved to be cared for by loving, responsible parents. Every child does, and you are no exception. ![]() Angela
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KathyAnita, we can see you as a person who has worth. I really appreciate the support you have given me. You are a kind, gentle, caring person. I wish that the world had more people like you in it. I am sad that she is telling you such awful things. You have been punished much more than you deserve already. You deserve good things.
(((((hugs)))))) if you want them, Wendy
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ahhhhhh att least its a bloodless remedy. no evidence in the garbage can , no cuts no burns to tend - (that a relief the yelling stops, the pressure let up) and oh yeah, IM A FAILURE AGAIN! but at least she shut up now
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Is willow switch abuse? Not being sarcastic, just have trouble knowing difference. when it is abuse and just meanness
. . . we had the same with willow switch. . .
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wantto, by today's standards, a willow switch would be considered abuse. As far as I know, anything but the bare hand for a spanking is abuse these days. But a belt or switch wasn't uncommon when I was a kid which wasn't all that long ago. The switch was for when I had done something exceptionally bad... like painting dirty words on the garage floor. And Kathy, I am terribly sorry you are having to go through this. It's not right for someone with your level of kindness to have to feel this way. I pray that you will soon be able to find peace. I'm always here if you need me.
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ty for the clarification ryan. I appreciate your input. ((((((ryan))))))))
(((((((((((((((((((((((kathyanita))))))))))))))))) I hope you are doing better today.
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