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Old Aug 24, 2019, 05:40 PM
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Climb up onto a horse. Now have to use mounting block or a ladder, lol.
Oh yeah! Back in the day I used to say if you can't get on from the ground you can't ride it. Now I use a mounting block. No way i had i can get on from the ground.
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Old Aug 24, 2019, 06:36 PM
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Thank you for your comment, lol Funny how when we are young we take soo much for granted.


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Oh yeah! Back in the day I used to say if you can't get on from the ground you can't ride it. Now I use a mounting block. No way i had i can get on from the ground.
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Old Aug 24, 2019, 06:45 PM
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I get that, I really do. Back when I worked, as long as I had my hair colored, perm and expensive product along with all that makeup I used to wear, I felt ... normal. I even used to iron my clothing, buy Hanes Stockings, wear 3 inch heels and drive a car.

I have a different normal now.... I don't iron and can't iron, I let my hair go platinum and I cut it myself, lol. I wear supportive shoes, no stockings and I no longer drive and I can't see to apply mascara. Yeup, new normal for me.


Then there is the laundry. I have to use our coin operated machines which takes all day to do 3 loads. I'm exhausted going back and forth and by the end of the day, the laundry gets piled up on my bed. I just push it over to climb into bed to sleep and maybe, 3 days later, slowly I put it all away. I used to have it all done in one afternoon, ironed and all put away.

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I used to go to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I spent 52 years focused on "earning my living" through working. When I was young I even had a week job, and evening job and a weekend job.

My time was devoted to buying clothes to impress people at work, getting my hair done for work, getting sleep so I would be fresh for work, doing cultural things so that I had something to discuss at work - polishing my ego so that it stood up there with the competition.

All of that gave me confidence, an organised approach to things, and some artistic/ creative things that I loved. I enjoyed work but there was too much time spent sitting in that chair just because I was paid to do so.

I think that I was lucky, nothing in my early life made it inevitable that I would find interesting work that fit with me or that gave me a secure home to live in.

Now since a few months, I don't work... and there has been a period of difficult adjustment to that.

I've let go of continually comparing myself with others and competing with them.
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Old Aug 27, 2019, 06:41 AM
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I am 72, and still go down the slide and swing with my granddaughter....I march in my 3 inch high heels in parades....still watch cartoons. I can't think of anything I can't do when I was younger! I still take ballet classes (since I was a child); ;that is my first love. I walk 2-7 miles a ay.
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Old Aug 27, 2019, 12:03 PM
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Good for you, nicole! I'm glad your health allows you to do those things.
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Like owl, I now have to just do a little work at a time--regardless of the kind of work. And I don't chew bubble gum. But I have been known to eat ice cream cones and suck on lollipops.
On a related note, I can't cook a whole meal all at once anymore. I'll maybe cook the meat today and wash/chop the veggies. Then, the next day cook the veggies and rice.

Or prepare everything one day (washing, chopping, marinading, whatnot), then cook the next day. I can't stand being in my kitchen too long either anymore as I get claustrophobic since it's a galley kitchen. And it's hot---no window in there.

I could stand it when I was younger. I could also stand at the counter a long time, whether prepping foodor doing dishes.

And when I say I can only do one or two tasks in a day for making dinner, such as prepping the chicken with a batter and crumbs (example), this includes clean up for it. It's all so exhausting and time consuming.

I can't chew too much hard stuff cause of TMJ, something I had no trouble with when younger. I now have osteoarthritis in the left TMJ, and it makes biting into hard stuff difficult. And I can't or shouldn't chew gum anymore. Hard on the jaw, the dentist said.

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What did you used to do when younger but don't any more because of your age?

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What did you used to do when younger but don't any more because of your age?

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Old Sep 07, 2019, 06:28 PM
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I no longer climb up onto roofs. I suppose I could. But I'm glad I don't need to...
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Old Sep 08, 2019, 03:13 PM
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I no longer climb trees, skip, leap tall buildings in a single bound, and cry over spilled milk.
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Old Sep 08, 2019, 05:59 PM
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I no longer climb trees, skip, leap tall buildings in a single bound, and cry over spilled milk.
Drinking milk is something I don't do anymore. And I never cry if I spill milk either. I just get pissed!
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Old May 14, 2020, 09:12 PM
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I can't wear just any kind of shoes anymore darn it. I love shoes. I have to wear supportive shoes which fit my bunion plagued feet.
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Old May 14, 2020, 11:02 PM
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Old May 17, 2020, 08:18 AM
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I am 72, and still go down the slide and swing with my granddaughter....I march in my 3 inch high heels in parades....still watch cartoons. I can't think of anything I can't do when I was younger! I still take ballet classes (since I was a child); ;that is my first love. I walk 2-7 miles a ay.
That should be in the “good news” thread! That’s great!

It arnnoys me that I can’t pull open a bag like chips. I use scissors now.
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Old Jul 01, 2020, 07:38 AM
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Old Jul 04, 2020, 12:11 PM
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Old Jul 04, 2020, 03:20 PM
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Imagine all of the outstanding things I was going to accomplish in my life.
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Old Jul 10, 2020, 11:57 PM
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swing on swing sets--I'd probably break it anyway because of my weight.

I do swing on my porch swing and rock in rocking chairs though.
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