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Apr 21, 2011, 05:05 AM
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Hi All,
Just wanted to take a minute to be honest. I was coming back from a Sex and love addicts anonymous meeting on Tuesday night when i got a text from some random guy i slept with before. We started chatting and he asked if he could come over. i said sure but was so irritated with myself until i realized i could change my mind. So i told him no, i didn't want him to come over. i'm so proud of my decision not to act out. it would have had devastating consequences. Love and Hugs, Tara |
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Apr 21, 2011, 07:36 AM
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you made a wise choice tara. thinking it through the prob. good for u.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand |
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Apr 21, 2011, 08:53 AM
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That's really great; the more you practice making healthy choices for yourself the easier it gets.
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Apr 27, 2011, 09:37 AM
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Well done Tara. It wouldnt have been long before you were feeling low about it all. I do understand. I wanted to do the same when I was hurt badly, just for some kind of affection but I kind of reasoned and rationalized with myself and then just shrugged it off. I was so glad I hadnt (and it would have been very out of the norm for me) I felt so strong and you should feel the same.
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