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Apr 21, 2011 at 05:05 AM
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Hi All,
Just wanted to take a minute to be honest. I was coming back from a Sex and love addicts anonymous meeting on Tuesday night when i got a text from some random guy i slept with before. We started chatting and he asked if he could come over. i said sure but was so irritated with myself until i realized i could change my mind. So i told him no, i didn't want him to come over. i'm so proud of my decision not to act out. it would have had devastating consequences. Love and Hugs, Tara |
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Apr 21, 2011 at 07:36 AM
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you made a wise choice tara. thinking it through the prob. good for u.
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Apr 21, 2011 at 08:53 AM
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That's really great; the more you practice making healthy choices for yourself the easier it gets.
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Apr 27, 2011 at 09:37 AM
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Well done Tara. It wouldnt have been long before you were feeling low about it all. I do understand. I wanted to do the same when I was hurt badly, just for some kind of affection but I kind of reasoned and rationalized with myself and then just shrugged it off. I was so glad I hadnt (and it would have been very out of the norm for me) I felt so strong and you should feel the same.
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