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Jan 13, 2010 at 01:27 PM
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i get a little pissed because when people find out im bi they automatically assume im a sex feind guys grab my junk and chicks dont want anything to do with me. i am a bisexual because i beleive that to a relationship gender shouldn't matter if you a man or a woman i just want sombody i can relate with who will sit down and burn one with me and play video games and listen to hardcore music. i mean sex is great and all but thats not all that matters damn it. so for those of you bisexuals that are sexualy driven i hate you your ruining it for me
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Jan 16, 2010 at 11:55 PM
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your right it doesn't make you a sex fiend. i have even seen a show on MTV i hate mtv. about bi teens and how it's destroying their lives. as for guys grabbing you stand up for you self and tell them to cut the crap. i don't know what to tell you about the girls. i for one don't get girls at all. gay girls i get them and i love them but straight girls idk. you may want to consider who your friends are and if they are worth you time. as for the hardcore if you mean punk right on. on the pot idk what to say about that. i don't think many bisexuals are that way you would have to elaberate on that one.
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Jan 17, 2010 at 12:04 AM
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I think guys like to grope girls no matter whether the girls are straight or bi. At least most of the guys I have met. I haven't told too many people that I am bi so the girls don't really know and most of them that I do tell don't care.
There was one time when I was in college that still makes me laugh. My friends and I went to a gay bar. Just for fun, we weren't trying to pick anybody up or anything. I was standing chatting with my friends and up walks this nice looking girl and she kisses me right on the lips and then just turned and walked back to the friends she was hanging out with. I was stunned. I don't know if she did it on a dare from a friend or if she just felt like she wanted to kiss me or what. Every time I think of it now I laugh. __________________ The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. anonymous |
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Jan 17, 2010 at 12:16 AM
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im a bisexual,who mostly only likes to date girls. so if u want to talk about anything im here. i got a girl tho and i love her very much but if u want to be friends im here
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Jan 17, 2010 at 06:19 AM
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I think bi guys (and girls) are great!! I myself am bi-curious (i say that because i never had the balls to do anything more than kiss girls). I think most of my friends know, although i've never come out and said it, i've made some strong hints at it.
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Jan 18, 2010 at 09:45 AM
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Bi-sexuality seems to be more common now then it used to be. I know I am bi-curious, and maybe even bi-sexual. I've made out with girlfriends of mine, and fantasize about sex with them, but in relationships I've only had guys. (I'm female, just to clarify, lol) I used to think that considering sex with a woman was wrong, or something...but now I think it sounds amazing....and there's nothing wrong with that! I think we all have to just find what we enjoy....and enjoy living.
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Jan 18, 2010 at 08:33 PM
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I understand stoner. I was dating a bi girl once but she said she said she was bi and therefore could not make a commitment to anyone. Turns out she was a self admitted sex addict. Or the girls say they are bi curious and then dump you and go back to men...it made me feel like some kind of lab test animal. Hang in there stoner.
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Jan 24, 2010 at 09:55 PM
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bisexuals are like any sexuals.
bisexual definition: attract to ppl of both sexes. that's all it is! Nothing more nothing less. You have a right to be what you are without harrassment! Billi __________________ The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness!  |
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Jan 27, 2010 at 12:15 AM
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I'm I bi, gay, should I of been born a woman over the years iis gotten confusing. Right now I'm a secret agent man. Told a lady I rally care about I'm transgendered. Tomorrow maybe I'll tell her I feel like a woman thats the way I've got it planned. My plan is I want us to be girl friends Damn i'm now shaking trying to type this letter took a lot of vicodins today to feel better. Just want a girlie friendship w/her not bed her down. ENOUGH!
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Jan 28, 2010 at 05:38 PM
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I've started to stand up for myself a little bit. Still can't find that special some one but im not being treated like meat anymore. Its kind of hard though because im not a mean person at all and their making me have to be sometimes, mostly the guys. I really appreciate everybody's support in this matter.
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Feb 04, 2010 at 05:12 PM
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It's an interesting topic, and you absolutely make a valid point. I myself don't really "label" myself in this matter, but yes, I'm okay with guys or girls; I have to be in love with them, but gender doesn't stop me. Others might consider me bi-curious, mostly because I've had more sexual experiences with girls than guys (though I've never gone farther with a girl than making out and heavy petting). ((I'm a girl, in case that matters...)) I think there's way too large of a stigma on bisexuality and homosexuality. I myself have many gay, bi, and lesbian (and one transgendered) friends, because while I may not have fallen for a girl, I've fallen for the "wrong" guy. I knew it, and I could do nothing about it. It is horribly and morally wrong to be essentially tormented because of something one has no control over! Given the choice, I've heard many homo/bisexuals say that they'd rather be straight, cause being openly gay is hell!
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Feb 04, 2010 at 06:12 PM
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I am a gay male, that used to smoke pot and listen to hardcore music. I get frustrated at women as friends and everything else and when I did have a scene to partake in the lesbian women that I talked to acted more masculine than me and I felt intimidated. I like men, straight or gay to talk with. I would smoke weed if I could but I don't think it would help my mental state and I have been dating men lately and get bored really quickly unless there is action. I don't grope anyone unless they communicate with me that that's the next step. Just be careful who you meet. Telling a girl that maybe wants a family and all that jazz that you have had sex with men and are bi-sexual is like dumping cold water on her, I would imagine. I don't know how to find just people that have no strings attached in one way or another and with women it seems there are more strings.
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Feb 04, 2010 at 09:40 PM
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I am sorry that you have to be subjected to the world's misconceptions/stereotypes. There is no reason for anyone to ever put their hands in places they don't belong. I am glad that you have insight into what you want. You want to feel safe being intimate. Not just physical intimacy but spiritual, emotional and intellectual intimacy and for you gender does not matter. If only the world were a little more understanding and empathetic.
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Feb 08, 2010 at 12:11 PM
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Another time i used to go this party house where i knew everybody. Execpt that everone was straight i went because i thought they where cool people. Drink, smoke, rockout all night kinda of place. One day i was wasted and let it slip i was bi and i was never invited back again. Its not like i ever hit on poeple or anything. It just weirded them out. Plus i know for a fact that half of them where gay haters anyway so i didnt really feel safe there. Just a little insight from my life.... |
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Feb 11, 2010 at 01:56 PM
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I have to respond again and say that I never say that I am bi anymore. It seems like ppl just can't accept that I like both men adn women---it has to be either or.
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Mar 03, 2010 at 12:52 PM
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What annoys me is when people think just because you're bi you'll cheat on them with someone of the same gender. Or that you'll somehow turn gay. Sounds funny but its annoying lol
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Mar 05, 2010 at 02:00 PM
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I understand, Xx.
My husband believes I am faithful now, but others that I talk to seem to think that being bi means I can't really be married or comitted to one person, just because they happen to be ONE gender. I have to explain to them that I am committed to Dane, even if I still like women. Billi __________________ The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! |
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Mar 20, 2010 at 02:42 PM
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Lonelystoner, I'm so sorry that you're goin through such a hard time because of your sexual orientation. I think part of this is because your sexual preference isn't understood. I also think part of it is because you have encountered some bigoted people who treat you poorly.
I was wondering if in your area you have any bisexual support groups that could help you out with this. To find one you could contact your nearest gblt center. I sure they can be of help. 
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Mar 20, 2010 at 02:45 PM
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Oh, I forgot LonelyStoner we have a gbltq group here. Perhaps that would be of some help.
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Mar 25, 2010 at 12:37 PM
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It's so hard for me to say I am bi.
and I am so glad someone here started this thread! Bi does NOT mean we are sex fiends! Bisexual---attracted to both sexes---NOT promiscuous! I am still married and I broke up with Lia. But I still have crushes on female celebrities. Have to validate th is issue once again. Yes, there are BIGOTS out there. And they do NOT define what we are! Billi __________________ The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! |
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