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Old Oct 07, 2017, 05:39 PM
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Now that I am 46, which seems ancient to me.. I get a lot of attention from younger guys. I mean the older guys act like I have a disease but the younger guys are obviously interested. I also find them not fat adverse as I am over weight.

It is so odd. With a guy my age if I flirt eventually we get that.. about to throw up look and they are done. But with the younger guys I definitely get the feeling if I wanted to pursue it.. I could go all the way.

Why? Do they just assume I am going to give them a rocking time in bed? Do they have that many hormones they would do anything that gave them the slightest encouragement?

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Old Oct 07, 2017, 07:27 PM
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Old Oct 07, 2017, 10:55 PM
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If you're not married or otherwise attached, why don't you find out why the're so interested? Many women would be flattered! Are you willing to be a "cougar?"
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Old Oct 08, 2017, 07:14 AM
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If you're not married or otherwise attached, why don't you find out why the're so interested? Many women would be flattered! Are you willing to be a "cougar?"
I think I might have a problem with it. But, it is getting tempting.
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Old Oct 08, 2017, 02:14 PM
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I'm 55 and have been seeing guys in their 40s....it's great! I'm really young acting for my age and many of the guys that are in my age range seem super old! I say as long as they can carry on a conversation and act mature, no need to worry so much about their age.

I do think that younger men seek out older women because we tend to know what we want, don't play games and can teach them to be better lovers.

Good luck!
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 04:01 PM
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It seems to make sense. Men generally reach their sexual peak when they're younger, and women generally reach their sexual peak when they're older. I can see why they'd go together.
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Old Oct 24, 2017, 07:13 AM
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My lover is younger too. I also attract men in their 20's but so far have not gotten involved with them.
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Old Oct 25, 2017, 10:17 AM
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Imho, we "older" women come with many positive labels!
We know what we want especially in bed. We're seen as Independent, self reliant, mature & very confident in our sexuality. We've done the milestones in life of younger women, we want more.

I think this is what younger men might see in us.....not all of us & might not be true of all of us either.

But we're not entering the wet t shirt contest at spring break either. We are now valued for what we possess. I feel this might put older men or men our age off.

Just what I see & just my opinion.
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