what do you think

I have question. I wore women's panties before I met my wife in 2004, I stopped wearing them until roughly 3.5 years ago. Everyone that knows I wear them has no problem with it, except for her. I find them comfortable, and I enjoy them. What do you all think?

I am not sure whether your question is whether others think it is Ok for you to wear female underwear, or whether your question is whether it is reasonable for your wife to have a problem with your preferences?

Personally, I don't see the issue at all. Your wife just may feel uncomfortable because she (like most people) have been raised to believe that men should wear men's clothes, and women should wear women's clothes. However, you're not hurting anyone by wearing women's panties, they make you feel comfortable, what's the harm?

Have you tried sitting your wife down and having a serious discussion with her about this?

Seriously, nothing is wrong with this at all. Let's face it, our underwear's just so much more fun and sexy than men's!

It's harmless, unless it's interfering with your life. Hopefully with time, and communication, your wife will be able to get past this little quirk of yours. Enjoy!

Yes they are more fun and sexy. Wearing them made her decide she didn't want to touch me,big deal she hasn't touched me, paid attention or sleep with me in almost 4 years. I have even worn yoga/lounge pants,shorts too. Just only panties all the time. Rest worn when alone and in own yard. She decided to file for divorce on these grounds. Sucks cause have three year old girl. Wish could find woman who doesn't judge,likes what I wear and do.

Sending you many hugs, oldman01!
If your wife judges you because of what you wear, then she is not right for you, and does not deserve you. Especially if she's not even willing to try getting out of that close-minded thinking.

Thank you. I know a lot of women at Victoria secrets who don't judge and they go out of way to help take a look after put stuff on and let know if they're ok, and bring me more til done. Wish I could find a women like them. What would you say/do if your man does what I do?

I can't properly answer this question because I'm an asexual and have no desire for romantic or sexual relationships. HOWEVER, if I did desire a relationship with a man/woman, I really wouldn't care if they wore underwear of the opposite sex. I might not find it a turn-on, but what matters is that the person is comfortable with what they're wearing.

An example I could better use for myself would be, if I found out a close male family member preferred to wear women's underwear...I would support their choice completely. What someone wears is their choice, nobody else's, and there is NOTHING wrong with wearing clothing of the opposite sex. It bothers me that there are still people who are completely against this.

Only person in my family ok with what I wear is my mother and brother.

Wish I could find woman ok with what I wear,do.