 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Dec 07, 2011, 10:43 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Two years ago my husband comitted bestiality with a calf. He confessed to me and told me that he suffered from sexual fantasies and constant perversions he had very little desire to be with me intimitely after the day we got married and eventually told me why:
He told me he was molested when he was ten by a worker that worked on his parents farm, He had blocked it out in his mind so he couldnt remember what happened or who the farm worker was, he said that when he told his mother about it she just said "thats nice" and carried on. He told me that since he was a teenager he had been comitting bestiality with the dog at home and with several animals. He had sexual thoughts about men, old women and was caught masterbating several times at work. when I discovered all of this my inclination was to leave him. as soon as I told him that we were seperating his family came in swept up all the pieces and even put it into his head that I was the one to blame in all of this. I have tried contacting him several times, each time the family has tried to stop me from speaking to him have even changed phone numbers in case I try to ring him. I am starting to have my suspicions that the person that molested him was his own father what is the likelihood of this? |
|
#2
Dec 08, 2011, 09:53 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I'm curious as to why you ask that particular question.
If you asked, "Can he ever be cured", or "Will we ever get back together again", I would understand. I'm hearing that you are very angry with your husband and will never forgive him but you somehow still feel for him. Do you fear for his safety?
__________________
Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
|
#3
Dec 09, 2011, 06:29 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
How do you feel about him? Do you still love him? Even though he has these fantasies and sexual history. Maybe he's controlled by his nuclear family and he lacks a backbone to contact you. All question marks. Ultimately he will need therapy to resolve the childhood sexual abuse and issues with bestiality.
|
|
#4
Dec 10, 2011, 01:51 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Im so sorry for you and your husband. You have both been put in a very unfair situation, and whether you stay together or not, he
needs therapy. You maybe could use some too because you have to have been affected by the situation. |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
