I think I might be bi...

Well I've never had a crush on a girl, I'm definitely more romantically interested in guys. But I think I'm more sexually interested in girls, they turn me on more and the idea of having sex with a girl is much more appealing to me, but I like guys and want a boyfriend. I would love a girlfriend too though. Help I'm so confused, is anyone else like this??? Am I bisexual???

Heyy. I don't know whether this will help you or not but according to the Kinsey scale nearly everyone is bisexual. In any case most people agree that more than 90% of women are bisexual. In fact this may surprise you but if you had shown any of my female friends in school and college a picture of a guy or a girl and asked them who they found more attractive they would all pick the girl. For a lot of women part of the sexual attraction comes from the strength, security, normalcy of having a man. The truth is more than half the population of females would fantasize about having a girlfriend or being with a girl. I did too when I was younger, but I did find that I was more attracted to guys.

If you read my post psycho-sexual you know that I have a similar problem. I think sexuality is on a continuum. Different people have more or less of both the male and female drives. I would just caution you on how you handle your needs. "Coming out" to the wrong person can be disastrous, as it was for me. Good luck.

Thanks that helps.

I guess sometimes its ok not to know...i would just take your time and if you want to maybe explore your desires and see where this leads you then go for it. I recently came out as bi - it took me a while to accept it but i feel much better now. Is there anyone you can talk to about this? good luck.

No I would like to be able to talk to a friend but idk how to tell them... I certainly can't talk to my parents because they think it's wrong. I really wish I knew a girl who was bi or lesbian but all my friends are straight Idk what to do. I wish there was a way I could get a girlfriend.

Ive only come out to one person and it went incrediably badly but fear of peoples reactions is understandable and i wouldn't let that scare you off of trying. I just said something along the lines of; 'there is something i need to tell you and i want to tell you because i love you as a friend and i feel you deserve to hear the truth that i myself know and accept...' Theres no easy way of telling someone but i think if your ready to do so, the quicker you get it over with the better. At least then its not playing on your mind and your free to just carry on living life...Good luck and remember you have a friend in me

Thank you I'll see if I can gets the guts to tell my friend.