[Webgoji]

I'm just curious. I see quite a few threads asking if this or that fantasy is normal, but to be honest, I've never had a sexual fantasy. I like sex ... alot! But there's not one scenario I fantasize about.

2 women - nope
Sex in public - naw
Exotic Location - meh

So is there anyone out there that doesn't have a sexual fantasy?

[Big Mama]

Me either. I just don't think of that kind of stuff. I have just never fanticicized about anything. I hope T never asks about that area of my life. Some people say "well everyone fanticicizes" I disagree.

[blackwhitered]

I don't, but I'm asexual, so that's kind of a given.

[ResaLock]

I am asexual. Would that be considered by some a gender issue. I am disgusted by the thought of both...as though its abnormal... I didn't always think like that. I even try to make jokes about how hot some guy is...in reality, it seems abnormal to me.
I have 2 kids...and I made them not having these issues... It was all great...
...now sex disturbs me... even though I can talk about it... and probably fix any ones sexual hindrances in a relationship...LOL

[Grey Matter]

Asexuality is on the spectrum. Not a gender issue, and also not abnormal at all!

I am asexual so, no, no sexual fantasies.

[Big Mama]

I don't know if I am asexual or not. But I agree with Resa. I find sex less then interesting. I could care less about it actually. I can talk about it and joke about it, I have had it, I just no longer have a desire for it.

I have a husband and 3 kids, and we got them the traditional way, sex. But that doesn't mean I like it. I never fanticicize about anything.

It is kind of interesting the responses that have been given to this thread. a large amount of folks that are asexual. I can't wait to continue following this one and see how the information may or may not change.

[growlithing]

I do fantasize a lot. However, I have friends who do not identify as asexual and say they do not. They could be lying but I believe them. Different people just have different sex drives and interests in sex. Trying to put a label on it sometimes isn't possible

[laikashuman]

I really don't fantasize at all. I enjoy sex but not because it feels good. I blame this on being sexually abused as a child and raped in my teens. I love sex because it fulfills me emotionally and creates a great bond with my husband. Any time he wants, he usually gets. I've never orgasmed from sex and I don't masturbate. Any time I start to get aroused, feelings of shame and guilt ruin my sexy mood. I guess the only fantasy I can come up with is to enjoy myself more often.

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[nycgal448]

girl and my ex w me.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Webgoji

I'm just curious. I see quite a few threads asking if this or that fantasy is normal, but to be honest, I've never had a sexual fantasy. I like sex ... alot! But there's not one scenario I fantasize about.

2 women - nope
Sex in public - naw
Exotic Location - meh

So is there anyone out there that doesn't have a sexual fantasy?

Let me ask you a question, trying to determine if we are in the same boat.

2 women nope on random, identity-less women? How about actual women you know in your life?

A great thread, thanks for posting.

[RTerroni]

Asexual as well so no sexual fantasies.

[Marshellette]

I am nasty...
1-Sneaking into a guy's restroom and checking out the urinals while dressed as a janitor. Lol!!!
2-Basically imaging what any hot celeb looks like naked and what it would be like with him.