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Ok Ladies,
I need you help. There are drugs and exercise regimens that are supposed to improve a mans sexual stamina (ability to engage in sex for longer periods before reaching climax). The exercises are supposed to increase the strength of a male erection. My question is, have you all found that the strength of a man's erection is proportional to his stamina? Simply, if it sticks at the ceiling can he last longer? Thoughts? Any input is appreciated. Last edited by bighands; Jul 03, 2012 at 04:15 PM. |
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I think it's all in your mind. I've never had sex, but couldn't you just hold off from reaching a climax until after you've made your partner climax?
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In my experience the opposite is true. The harder he is, the faster he cums. But... But.... I have zero experience with performance enhancers, so idk about that.
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It is about having the self control to stop from cumming. My bf paces himself and slows down if he gets close to climax if we want to go Longer.
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bighands how is the stamina in his tongue? lol... or get some toys... be creative
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But what I meant is, my best guy friend and I were planning on having sex and he told me he can control when he cums so that he can wait till after I orgasm. |
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My wife is on meds that make it hard for her to have an orgasm. So, she likes hard, fast thrusting to get there but that's very hard to maintain for long without cumming. Sure, I can use oral or vibrators to get her there but it would also be nice if we could get there through intercourse like in the past. |
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No, he's not an online friend, he's my best guy friend and I've known him for years.
Ummmmm he's not mentally ill? It's called being a gentleman, pleasing the ladies before pleasing themselves. A LOT of men can hold themselves I don't see how that could be hard. My bff's bf can hold it too. |
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DS, If you've never had sex, how are you sure A LOT, of men can hold it?
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I would also say, watch what you wish for, you might get it. the opposite situation, where the man does not ejaculate, is not as much fun as it sounds, either.
so IME, practice makes perfect, but I find if I "lay off" for a while, what used to be "the spot" has shifted to someplace else. That was a welcome surprise! I don't know if I broke the old spot or what, but the new spot works just as well! Honestly, I didn't think i'd ever switch spots! so lube up and look for other spots in the neighborhood, so to speak - women have like jillions of nerve endings, much much more than men. |
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I ask......
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and that's a valid way of trying to source info. I just find it hard to believe that many or any would admit to being a 2minute noodle. Of cors they're going to say they can control it, and last all night, yadda yadda yadda. Their pride is at stake... Guess my point is just, that when it comes to something like this, you don't know until you know, testimonials don't hold much weight.
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I don't believe a man doesn't have any control over his penis.
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Good luck with that.
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LMAO
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it's the journey, not the destination, right? i've had my journeys, i'm pretty much at my destination
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My sentiments exactly, you just managed to word it perfectly
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I also do not find it abnoxious if the male ejaculates fast. It might just show his level of desire, especially if it is first time sex together or first time after a long break. As long as he does not fall asleep but goes on to please his lady via other means after his orgasm, it is OK, to me! Of course, I understand the OP's situation which is NOT described as first time together. OP, I hope you will find a solution. |
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