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Oct 20, 2012 at 02:19 PM
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Im really struggling to distinguish my feelings. Im really paranoid when i meet new people. I always feel like peopke are talking about me behind my back, ive even had a major fall out witg my closest friend cause i thought she was slagging me off to somone on a night out. I
find it really hard to tell wheyher people are really also lesbians or if theyre just ****ing me over. Its so complicated, especially when people dont even seem to know themselves. The first girl i eber really liked was blatently a lesbian and sometimes shed be fine wih it and all over me then shed swith and stay she was straight. I could understand her strugglw but it hurt. Now it seems to happen a lot. But i dont know if im just paranoid. Why are women so complicated? Think i need to improve my gaydar. And be more open with my own gayness, this entire post is pretty hypocritical tbh! |
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Oct 20, 2012 at 06:33 PM
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Well, I am gay and not lesbian but here's my advice: only date people who are out in the community. I think when someone's says they are really not sure that that may be a polite way of breaking up rather than indicating they are confused about their sexuality. Take the hint and move on. I know that breaking up hurts but, do you know what is worse? Being in love with someone who does not share or return your feelings. Hang in there and keep looking for Ms. Right!
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Oct 21, 2012 at 02:41 AM
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Trust me, its not like that! Its what these girls do. They are part off a gay community but they just **** over real gay people. One off them literally said to me 'once i leave this college im gonna.be totally straight, but i just need something to do whilst im here' i did just accept it and move on.
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Oct 21, 2012 at 08:43 AM
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Yeah, I have met people like that. Especially if you're the type who falls in love easily then they are a type to avoid. I have nothing against bisexuals but will never date one again. Fortunately, as you get older, those people tend to disappear from the scene. So, just hang in there and try to screen potential partners as best as you can. Don't be afraid to ask questions before you go to bed with them. Don't be shy. Write down your questions in advance so you are prepared what to ask. Of course, ask in as charming a way as possible.
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