A random question.

I am just wondering... I do NOT want to have sex, I am WAY too young for that. I have no interest in it, but I am just curious. I know that if I did have sex, I would always regret it (at this age, if I was older and an appropriate age, then no). Also, I would be way too uncomfortable to be wearing no clothes, but I just want to know. What age do girls usually become sexually attracted to guys? Does anyone know? Cause I was just wondering if there was a certain age that most girls start being interested in that stuff. JUST curious, that is all.

I was in 9th grade when I was interested in guys. I was in 11th grade when I wanted to do more than like guys. I was a close on kinda person until I got married. I always kept a shirt and socks on even while being w/ a guy. Hope this helps.

The best advice a person gave me was don't do it w/ a guy unless you want to marry him. If you don't want to marry him don't get in the bed w/ him. Accidents do happen and you just may end up pregnent and married.

Hmmm I was about twenty, and I was already married with children! Lol so wait until your heart delights! No reason to awaken love before the time! Yours truly, Lightbulb7

I like Big Mama's reply! Where were you when I was that age, a million years ago??

I have been attracted to guys since I was probably about 10 years old, so around 5th grade. I didn't have sex until the day before my 23rd birthday, though, so don't let anyone tell you that you have to give up your virginity before you're ready.

I first started having romantic "crushes" when I was 13 but at 24 I've still not experienced sexual attraction at all and haven't had sex.

I had a boyfriend in the 9th grade. I had sexual feelings in the 11th grade. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18. It was to a very nice guy I still think highly of but things didn't work out. Marreid some one else.

Another thing to keep in mind. If it's not forever do you really want him who ever that may be to see/feel that part of your anatomy. Anything you you say or do can be held against you, all in the name of vengeful fun. Be careful.

I was about 9 when I started to become interested in guys. I was 12-13 when I first did foreplay with a guy, then lost my virginity at 14. My advice is definitely don't rush into, now I'm older I definitely wish I had waited because the guy was about 17? And just used me for sex. I was completely devastated! So definitely wait! M. xx

You sounds like a very wise young lady.

Most people begin to feel sexual attraction towards others with puberty, typically a little ways into it. The timing does vary though...I would place my money on about, oh...Freshman year of high school, perhaps? Maybe 8th grade? Sometime around that time frame was when my mind started to wander, so to speak.

I know I've talked to you about sex before, because I was in a hard place. And I'm sorry, I wasn't even thinking about the age difference between us (which isn't all that much), but with the age that you're at, and the age that I'm at there are ALOT of different things going on for both of us. & I'm sorry that I brought the topic of sex up with you. I'll be more careful in the future.

To answer your question, the first time I remember having sexual attraction to a guy, I was 13. And it wasn't sexual attraction as much as I thought it was. He was a first real boyfriend and I liked him alot, but I didn't want to have sex with him. It took us months before we even had our first kiss. (it was both of our first kiss). I did foreplay when I was still 14.
I always told myself that I wasn't going to have sex until I found "Him." .. and to be perfectly honest, after things ended badly with my first and second boyfriend, I gave up. I decided that I didn't want a him anymore. I just wanted it to be me. I began getting involved with a guy, who sweet talked me, and I liked how it felt, but I also knew that he was with 4 other girls at the same time he was"dating" me. And I knew it the whole time, but it didn't bother me, because I didn't want a future with him anyway, not a real one. I just liked how it felt to have someone talk to me that way. Even if it wasn't real.
When I was 15 and I finally decided that what I was doing wasn't healthy for myself, because I realized that I had feelings for this guy, and him being with other girls was really emotionaly damaging to me. So we ended it.. and a couple weeks later I found out that one of the other girls he was with was pregnant. She was excited , and he .. well wasn't. But they have a baby together, and their own apartment now. .. anyways (sorry for adding so many details) I'm glad it wasn't me.
Shortly after I ended it with this guy, (longggg storryy) He cheated on me the same night that my best friend cheated on his best friend (its all really complicated) well his best friend and (me) decided that we were fed up with them and so we just hung out the two of us for once, and we hit it off. It was like it was meant to be. I still believe it was destiny. I love that boy with everything I've got. & We're still together. (granted I'm only 16 now) , but we've been together for a year and a half now, and I wouldn't trade him for the world. He is my "Him." I tell him that he is 'everything that I've NEVER wanted' because I didn't want a Him. but he is perfect to me and for me.
I lost my virginity to him when I was 15. (only a month after we started dated). And I don't regret it. I honestly believe that I'm gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life.
(which sounds dumb to all of you, probably, cause I'm so young. But it doesn't matter, I know how I feel, and I know how he feels too. <3 )

..sorry this was so long.

Per my late mom, in preschool. Not just an attraction, but I was possessive of a boy and did not let another girl caress the boy - pushed and kicked the said girl. I currently let other women caress the guys I am with without a problem but probably because I am not so much into the guys, I am just having fun.

From my memory - third grade. Reciprocated.

The guy I lost my virginity to was a long time boyfriend. He didn't pressure me. One night when he was stoned he wanted it do more. I told him I loved him and that stoned was not the way I wanted my first time to be. The following weekend he was great. He took me back to his house and everything was perfect. I thanked him for not being wasted. I lost my virginity and it was no huge deal but I knew that I did the right thing by standing up for me. He was kind and gentle. He was slow and reasuring. He was a great teacher. I found him 3 weeks later w/ another girl. I walked in on them. She ended up pregnent. They are now married and have 5 kids. Good for them and glad it was not me.

In hind sight things didn't work out but I didn't compromise what I felt was right or wrong. He was kind and gentle and I can't thank of a more wonderful person to have lost it to. There were real feeling for one another there. I knew deep down since he was into pot and such that I could never really stay w/ him. So it didn't hurt to badly when he was not a part of my life anymore. I still see his brothers aound town, I see his parents every now and again and I see his wife and kids from time to time to. I have seen him around maybe twice in 15 years.

Not staying w/ him was right and so was sleeping w/ him as my first. Sorry this was long and I am not promoting one night stands. I'm just happy you found some one that is special to you and that is what really matters.

Most girls start fantasizing around puberty age. Ron and Draco/Harry and Hermione were my first sexual fantasies, and I was about 9 when Harry Potter first came out. So even though I was young and a girl, it's still completely normal to be curious about sexual things. I don't know how old you are, but I know you are wise enough to know your boundaries and make smart choices.