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Mar 10, 2013 at 01:25 PM
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im 19 years old and for the past week I have been wanting a baby. I don't know where this all came from but I have been wanting a baby boy or girl.it doesn't matter if it is mine even if a girl finds me and she has a baby I don't care. I want to know what it feels like taking care of another human. I want the feeling of raising another person. watching them grow up. play outside with them roll in the grass. all of that I want it.
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Mar 10, 2013 at 03:54 PM
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Age-wise, probably not ready. But you will get there - you have a long life to live. |
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Mar 10, 2013 at 04:53 PM
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Agreed with Hamster. I think it is very sweet and noble of you, and I can to an extent share your sentiments, but a child is a TON of responsibility as well. It'd be best to wait...get yourself into a position that you can support the child as best you possibly can. You have a lot of stuff left to do in life.
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Mar 10, 2013 at 07:59 PM
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Mar 10, 2013 at 08:01 PM
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Mar 10, 2013 at 10:41 PM
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Mar 11, 2013 at 11:24 PM
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Since half of the marriages result in divorce (I do not know the figure for cohabitation relationships without marriage and I am not sure if the stats are kept), you always need to assess your potential parenting partner from the standpoint of her post-divorce cooperativeness in regards to child-rearing. You are too young to make that assessment well, I think.
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Mar 15, 2013 at 03:43 PM
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so the past month or so ive been flirting with this girl and she has been flirting back. well today I asked her out and she said yes. I think this is where all the feelings of wanting a baby came from because she has a baby boy. im not dating this girl just because she has a baby. im dating her because I really like her
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