HELP!!!!!!!!

Right so, quick summary. I like this guy, he talks to a lot of other girls but I don't know I think he might like me. Friends suggested I hook up with at a party tonite, like head or something not sex. But I'm worried that if I do then that's all we'll ever be. Ughhhhh don't know what to do. I'm going to this party with him in like 2 hours, HELP!!

Hi bri1394 - I'm quite a bit older than you, but I have a 15 yr old and an 11 yr .....know that times are changing. Please don't do anything with this guy, considering you hardly know him. If you like him, you shouldn't have to proof it, by doing something sexual.

I've also heard of many rapes happening at parties, especially when there's too much alcohol consumed. Get to know this guy well and be sure the feelings are returned. You don't want to feel used after. Sorry if this sounds motherly, but I'm all for empowering young women and fostering strong self esteem. Be safe.

What does "head or something NOT sex" mean, in practical terms??

Assuming give head, blowjob, bj, fellatio, oral sex...

It is sex. Notice the word "sex" in "oral sex", ok? It is there for a reason.

You will not gain anything by doing it and might suffer various losses, be it via exposure to disease or feeling crappy afterwards. So, no point. Hopefully he will like you. That he talks to many other girls in no way shows that he does not like you. Time will reveal whether he does, indeed. Just be patient, do not drink too much and always eat eat eat while drinking alcohol.