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View Poll Results: Do you DO partner SEX?
No, by choice. 6 31.58%
No, by choice.
6 31.58%
No, due to lack of opportunity. 5 26.32%
No, due to lack of opportunity.
5 26.32%
Yes, infrequently (subjectively defined) 2 10.53%
Yes, infrequently (subjectively defined)
2 10.53%
Yes, frequently (subjectively defined) 6 31.58%
Yes, frequently (subjectively defined)
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Old May 16, 2013, 05:24 PM
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Old May 17, 2013, 12:39 AM
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I don't understand the question.
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Old May 17, 2013, 12:40 AM
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I don't understand the question.
You do - you have a gf.

So you either have sex that is frequent enough according to your definition, or not as frequent as you would have liked.

The other two options do not apply to you since you are neither chaste by choice nor single by accident.
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Old May 17, 2013, 01:16 AM
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We have intercourse 3 times a week now, but i have been seeing her for several months.
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Old May 17, 2013, 03:39 AM
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I still don't get the question.
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Old May 17, 2013, 05:15 AM
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I'm not 100% sure I understood the question, but I'm going with "No, due to lack of opportunity," because I have a boyfriend, but we haven't had sex in years. It's not my being unwilling, although admittedly, my OCD plays a part of my own avoidance. My bf has self-esteem issues (I think that's what's going on, anyway) and has lost interest.
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Old May 17, 2013, 12:33 PM
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I'm in the nope due to opportunity group.
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Old May 17, 2013, 12:46 PM
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I'm in the nope due to opportunity group.
we figured .
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Old May 17, 2013, 01:49 PM
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yes. I am married. We do have sex, no I don't want to. yes I let my H have it once a week because being married is part of owning the cow and getting the milk for free. It is the least I can do to keep the man from straying I guess. Thought never would suit me fine. Not real sure which of those poll choices are the best option to choose.
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Old May 18, 2013, 12:36 AM
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The Q is worded so strangely, I'm not sure that I understand the Q.

Are you asking if I have sex with a partner??

If so ~ my answer is Yes, infrequently.

If not ~ I have no idea what you're asking.
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Old May 18, 2013, 12:36 AM
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The Q is worded so strangely, I'm not sure that I understand the Q.

Are you asking if I have sex with a partner??

If so ~ my answer is Yes, infrequently.

If not ~ I have no idea what you're asking.
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Old May 18, 2013, 12:40 AM
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Partner sex as opposed to solo aka masturbation.
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Old May 18, 2013, 12:42 AM
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The question was inspired by pfrog, hence the verb DO, quoting verbatim.
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Old May 18, 2013, 03:26 AM
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I have penetrative vaginal sex with her 3 times a week and then there are other behaviours which could be interpreted as sex such as touching and grooming which are on an ad hoc basis.

I am allowed to compel her to have sex with me at any time as long as I realise that this is part of my weekly quota. The quota isn't defined, it's just understood.
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i Am in the no due to lack of opportunity groooup at persent. I assume that doesnt cover the times you care for yourself?
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Sorry, I'm unsure of question but my husband and I have sex often. It would be great if every night, but not possible due to many factors.
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Old May 18, 2013, 12:51 PM
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my sex life is defined similar to IT's. By quota. A set amount of one time (minimum) in seven days, or once a week, unless monthly hormones affect that. Then I get the week off. It is an agreed upon amount. We can have more then that if so desired, but to keep my H frustration free once a week will do. Once a week is one time to many for me. But in the spirit of happyness and meeting others needs, I can be availiable once a week.
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Old May 18, 2013, 03:02 PM
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I put yes because I'm married and we have sex, which can range in frequency from once a month or less, to several times in a week depending on our amount of horniness. Some times we do other things, but we often end up having sex from there because we get horny from it.
I am also pretty sure my husband has taken care of business solo frequently, when we were redoing the bedroom, and I took the drawers out of his nightstand, I got a giggle outta the little empty lotion bottle I found. That is okay, though. My nightstand is worse. I've no room to judge!!! Lol! I am way less horny lately due to pain and antidepressants.
We used to hook up more in our twenties, and had a tradition of breaking in each room in our house when we bought it, any new piece of furniture that could withstand it, and any vehicle we owned. I was kind of sad when we got a new countertop, the other one saw a lot of fun. I guess we haven't broken the washer and dryer in, but they are front load and stacked on top of each other, so it's probably not happening.
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Old May 18, 2013, 04:59 PM
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i Am in the no due to lack of opportunity groooup at persent. I assume that doesnt cover the times you care for yourself?
no, that it does not, that i why the word "partner", to differentiate from "solo"
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Old May 18, 2013, 05:00 PM
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We used to hook up more in our twenties, and had a tradition of breaking in each room in our house when we bought it, any new piece of furniture that could withstand it, and any vehicle we owned. I was kind of sad when we got a new countertop, the other one saw a lot of fun. I guess we haven't broken the washer and dryer in, but they are front load and stacked on top of each other, so it's probably not happening.
A very nice tradition. Quite cute and endearing. It must be so good for the two of you to share such memories, I imagine.
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Old May 18, 2013, 08:46 PM
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Sex with your partner, sex with someone else, swapping, group sex... Not clear on your question either. In my life, wife says she doesn't care for sex, my libido has gone AWOL but I also have testosterone issue which I'm trying to find knowledgeable urologist who does the testing and treatment, if necessary.
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