How often do you ejaculate?

Poppy Princess · Jun 22, 2013, 07:41 PM

I guess I was closer than I thought.

LiteraryLark · Jun 22, 2013, 08:03 PM

Well, I think it is more dangerous to be mentally unstable and off medications than it is to masturbate frequently.

Poppy Princess · Jun 22, 2013, 08:33 PM

I would agree on that.

Jun 22, 2013, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by adam_k

Not to try bash my own religion, but if you want to feel guilty about it go catholic. You will have a reason then to not want to do it. You can even talk to a priest and have him tell you it is wrong and against gods will. That sex should just he between a man and woman and everything else is just lust and a sin.

But you shouldn't take up a half a dozen threads with it saying it is wrong and side tracking the discussion with your issue. It is inconsiderate.

I'm sorry.

Jun 23, 2013, 12:05 AM

they say porn has no adverse effects on a person, yet I have been making a lot of errors when I type and I have not been able to remember the username of my other accounts online. Wow, look what porn is doing to our brains.

If you want to know if porn is really detrimental to you, you ought to visit yourbrainonporn.com

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 12:21 AM

Yeah, it's a mockery site based on "your brain on meth" or "your brain on drugs". only there's very little facts or made up facts on that site.

Please stop pushing the porn, no one here is going to tell you that porn is bad for you. I've been using porn for four years now, since I was 16, and the only bad thing that has come from it is that now I've moved on from softcore porn to hardcore fetishes, but I believe that I am exploring my sexuality to its fullest. There is nothing wrong with my memory, that is the most bullsh*t excuse for not watching porn I've ever heard. Using the computer itself makes your memory go, not porn. If you seriously think this is an addiction, take it to the addiction forums.

Jun 23, 2013, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Yeah, it's a mockery site based on "your brain on meth" or "your brain on drugs". only there's very little facts or made up facts on that site.

Please stop pushing the porn, no one here is going to tell you that porn is bad for you. I've been using porn for four years now, since I was 16, and the only bad thing that has come from it is that now I've moved on from softcore porn to hardcore fetishes, but I believe that I am exploring my sexuality to its fullest. There is nothing wrong with my memory, that is the most bullsh*t excuse for not watching porn I've ever heard. Using the computer itself makes your memory go, not porn. If you seriously think this is an addiction, take it to the addiction forums.

Why are you so upset?

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 12:40 AM

We keep telling you and you won't listen.

I'm not upset, but I'm very annoyed that you are taking up half a dozen threads and multiple forums all about the same things: masturbation, porn, and your self-worthlessness. I am annoyed that when we give you advice you talk about something else, then apologizing by saying that your frequently changing the subject is something you can't help. I am annoyed that you are pushing that porn and masturbation is so wrong when everyone here is telling you that it's perfectly normal for someone your age to indulge in. And I'm annoyed that even when I tell you that it's actually healthy to indulge in it, you insist to post joke-websites and comments on how it's unhealthy. I don't get what you want, you're inconsistent with what you are saying and what you really mean.

Quite frankly, I can't take any of your posts serious anymore.

Jun 23, 2013, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

We keep telling you and you won't listen.

I'm not upset, but I'm very annoyed that you are taking up half a dozen threads and multiple forums all about the same things: masturbation, porn, and your self-worthlessness. I am annoyed that when we give you advice you talk about something else, then apologizing by saying that your frequently changing the subject is something you can't help. I am annoyed that you are pushing that porn and masturbation is so wrong when everyone here is telling you that it's perfectly normal for someone your age to indulge in. And I'm annoyed that even when I tell you that it's actually healthy to indulge in it, you insist to post joke-websites and comments on how it's unhealthy. I don't get what you want, you're inconsistent with what you are saying and what you really mean.

Quite frankly, I can't take any of your posts serious anymore.

Very well then. You don't believe me.

for me unless a problem is solved, i will mope about it til it's been solved. I have a tendency to do this. If I don't get what I believe I should get, then I will complain. I've been like that since I've been fed up with all the same occurrences again and again.

hamster-bamster · Jun 23, 2013, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

Very well then. You don't believe me.

for me unless a problem is solved, i will mope about it til it's been solved. I have a tendency to do this. If I don't get what I believe I should get, then I will complain. I've been like that since I've been fed up with all the same occurrences again and again.

The bold part is a mistake that you made because your porn use has damaged your brain. Please figure out how to correct it and you will be well on your way to reversing the lasting brain damage that your porn use - since you started at age 14 - has caused you over those tough three years.

I won't tell you what the mistake is and pray that nobody give you ANY hints. You have to work on it on your own. Your porn use was your transgression and you and you ALONE are responsible for undoing all that horrible damage.

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

Very well then. You don't believe me.

And what exactly should I believe?

You are a negative energy vampire. A negative energy vampire is someone who mopes around and brings others down by their negativity. A negative energy vampire makes others feel negative.

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

for me unless a problem is solved, i will mope about it til it's been solved. I have a tendency to do this. If I don't get what I believe I should get, then I will complain. I've been like that since I've been fed up with all the same occurrences again and again.

For this past week we have been trying to solve your problem for you, and yet you are not happy with the advice we've been giving you. You have a tendency to blame others for your problems and come up with excuses for why you are not solving your own problems.

Someone who complains for not getting what they believe they should get is what we called a spoiled brat. This is something we spoke of this morning. You are not the only one on this forum who has problems. We are ALL going through problems and we too get fed up with the same occurrences, but we at least try to do something about it instead of mope about it.

Jun 23, 2013, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

And what exactly should I believe?

You are a negative energy vampire. A negative energy vampire is someone who mopes around and brings others down by their negativity. A negative energy vampire makes others feel negative.

For this past week we have been trying to solve your problem for you, and yet you are not happy with the advice we've been giving you. You have a tendency to blame others for your problems and come up with excuses for why you are not solving your own problems.

Someone who complains for not getting what they believe they should get is what we called a spoiled brat. This is something we spoke of this morning. You are not the only one on this forum who has problems. We are ALL going through problems and we too get fed up with the same occurrences, but we at least try to do something about it instead of mope about it.

i understand that I'm not the only one who has problems. You don't think I've taken action. I even spoke to my teachers, my friends, and they all suggested I go see a therapist about this. If I believe that I could just hope, I would have just sat there and never even mentioned my problems. And you're telling me that I'm not trying hard enough?

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:05 AM

You've spoke nothing about your actions. It's all been complaints.

hamster-bamster · Jun 23, 2013, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

I even spoke to my teachers, my friends, and they all suggested I go see a therapist about this.

Really? They did not suggest that you maintain multiple threads about this issue? You decided to maintain so many threads completely on your own? It was your OWN brilliant innovation? Good for you! I am simply amazed!

dillpickle1983 · Jun 23, 2013, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by ArmyGirl

Scientists have proven masturbation will turn you into a homicidal lunatic. I promise I'm not lying.

This is humorous. If it were true, I would of already killed. It's kind of like the joke that floated around facebook for a while.. "Every time you masturbate, God kills a kitten. "

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Jun 23, 2013, 01:07 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

You've spoke nothing about your actions. It's all been complaints.

what actions have i not spoken of? didn't i tell you the time i saw my therapist? well i guess there's no use in talking to you about this anymore. I feel like you don't want to change your porn habits and you're telling me to do the same, am i correct? I mean, I want to change and as much as I disagree with you, I mean, wouldn't you at least recommend that i do something else instead of just telling me that I'm doing okay?

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:10 AM

No one is telling you that you're doing okay. You explicitly told us that isn't what you wanted us to tell you. All we are telling you is that you are normal, and yet you are still not okay with that. I'm telling you that if I am a girl and have spent four years watching porn and turned out okay, then you can too. You also said that your therapist was a waste of time. We have been trying to tell you to do something else and you didn't respond to that either.

Jun 23, 2013, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

Really? They did not suggest that you maintain multiple threads about this issue? You decided to maintain so many threads completely on your own? It was your OWN brilliant innovation? Good for you! I am simply amazed!

these people are not on psychcentral.

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by chandlerT660

This is humorous. If it were true, I would of already killed. It's kind of like the joke that floated around facebook for a while.. "Every time you masturbate, God kills a kitten. "

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You know I'm going nuts when I actually took her seriously. xD

Deep breaths, Doc, deep breaths!

Jun 23, 2013, 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

No one is telling you that you're doing okay. You explicitly told us that isn't what you wanted us to tell you. All we are telling you is that you are normal, and yet you are still not okay with that. I'm telling you that if I am a girl and have spent four years watching porn and turned out okay, then you can too. You also said that your therapist was a waste of time. We have been trying to tell you to do something else and you didn't respond to that either.

listen, I've had two therapists so far. one was a female who was not very useful. The other one was the male who explained to me about puberty. But i kind of disagree with him on how he said my hormones are still firing. I want to believe that, but I just can't.

Jun 23, 2013, 01:16 AM

I can see that this thread is getting us no place.

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:17 AM

Yes, that is why I suggested you stick to one thread and not half a dozen.

Jun 23, 2013, 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Yes, that is why I suggested you stick to one thread and not half a dozen.

This is one thread, not a dozen.

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

This is one thread, not a dozen.

You've made 22 different threads this week, and how many of them are about masturbation, porn, or self-worthlessness? Alot.

LiteraryLark · Jun 23, 2013, 01:23 AM

If you are serious about porn addiction, I recommend you using the sexual addictions thread. I think you will find other people who have serious problems with sex addictions.

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