What turns you on?

There's this spot where my neck and collarbone meet. If I have my hair up and he comes up behind and lightly kisses this spot I'm a puddle of goo in his hands.

With someone else it was getting rough and talking dirty. Since my h wouldn't do that it's like my body has adapted for his gentle touches.

Fefe(28) -bipolar II
Hubby(28)
Son(8)-aspergers and possibly ADHD and odd
Daughter(5)

ooh I have one of those spots too ... mine is right at the base of my skull ... sink your teeth into that and I'm gone !

it's on my right cheek, it's easy to find.

My boys...<3

I get turned on by a lot of things. But I'll get more specific and share that I love watching a guy get hard. Watching him get hard without touching himself and seeing it twitch and grow on its own or when a guy pulls down his pants and his stuff bounces up.

How did I miss this? I was looking for this earlier.

Growlithing: I thought you never had the opportunity to get intimate? That's pretty intimate.

My fantasies right now include caning DeadMau5 while people watch him live on his livestream, caning Skrillex, blowing DeadMau5 while he's working in the studio, and strap-on sex.

Dat ***.

Southern-country men!

I watch a lot of porn.

That's interesting. I never look at the men that way. I never look at men at all when I watch porn, mostly because they're never in the shot...

There are no women in what I watch so there aren't a lot of other options but to look at men. I also just like looking at them haha

Ah, yes, gay porn is much slower and "love" orientated. You see stuff you don't see in regular porn.

For real?

No argument there!

Kind of. It seems more genuine. Like the guys are enjoying each other more, which is weird because I know that isn't necessarily the case because a lot of gay porn stars are gay for pay. There is harder stuff out there, but it can be a little bit difficult to find. BDSM gay porn that isn't way over the edge is difficult to find. The acting is particularly hysterical.

For real. Have you ever seen gay actors via redtube and youporn do the brutal things that straight men do to women in regular porn, choking them and spitting on them and saying these ridiculously sexist things to them while the women gag? I get so bored watching gay porn because it's all cutesy and gentle, which is odd because all my fantasies include straight men having gay sex.

I agree with this 100%. I just can't find the kind of rough gay sex the way I'd like to fantasize about. If you did, please send me a link.

Men who ride horses and are all dressed up like an old english huntsman, breeches, red coat, long black boots, that sort of thing. Highway men and pirates are sexy too, again its the long black boots. I like the dressing up thing and I like guys who like dressing up too. Oh and guys who wear make-up now that is real sexy.

I seem to like scenes in movies where men bash women . . . not that I advocate it at all . . . it's a taboo fantasy, and not something i would practice.

In the sopranos Ralph Cifaretto bashed a hooker to death and I was a little turned on by that. But that makes sense because I am turned on by most forms of domination.

This isn't a totally sexual turn on for me, but for the past couple weeks I've been fantasizing about being pregnant.

Sensual touching....very slowly. Having my toes licked or sucked. Being hog tied. Beautiful eyes I can get lost in. A man's chest & teasing their nipples. Teasing, teasing & more teasing. Lots of pain too.

My girlfriend ( yes IT i've got one now), awesome feet, girly young men, clever women who don't flaunt it, innocence but not in a paedo way, oh and in case she reads this did i say my girlfriend.

It sucks. Trust me. The end result is great but getting to that point. Ugh I hated it.

Fefe(28) -bipolar II
Hubby(28)
Son(8)-aspergers and possibly ADHD and odd
Daughter(5)

Masculine jaws on women haha.