What turns you on?

Maybe the opposite of what turned me off for 33 years of my marriage.....

A man who wants to grow up & be responsible rather than stay a child all his life.

A man who is financially responsible who doesn't spend money he doesn't have & doesn't use credit to get the things he wants.

A man who doesn't lie by withholding information or telling you lies that he believes to be true but you find out later that he was making them up because he was afraid to say 'I don't know....I will look it up & get back with you'

A man who can take care of problem situations without ignoring them or finding some excuse for not taking care of them & then you find out about it so long after that either I have to figure out how to clean up the mess he made or nothing can be done to fix it by then.

A man who doesn't make me be the man of the family but who is willingly an equal partner in the relationship.

A man who is doesn't blame his failures on everything & everyone other than himself.....or better yet a man who doesn't have those failures in the first place because the attitude problem isn't there to cause the failures in the first place.

A man who doesn't have to put others down with sarcasm to make himself feel better.

What I really wanted was a man who had his career & his life together but who would also allow me to have my life & career together & we would come together with our resources to make a successful loving & caring marriage.

& I wondered why all those 33 years I had no interest in my H or felt any love for him. If only I had understood those red flags then rather than now & I had listened to myself then I never would have married .....I am glad to not have to live around him any longer but the damage he's done lingers on.

I never would have thought that so many different things turned so many different people on, but what turns me on the most is (this might sound strange) those hot couples walking around. I can only imagine what they get to do to each other, and at the thought of it, I get turned on. Another major turn-on for me is dirty fanfiction. I use it mainly to get off when I need to, though, considering that my girlfriend isn't very good at satisfying me.

Hehe, that turns me on, too. At least I have someone with a common interest here...

I get turned on performing oral sex with my wife.

Alright then...if that's how you want to phrase it, that works.

of late I have come to realise that somewhere along the line my view of 'sex' and 'love' became very skewed. I hope one day to be able to work that out ... meantime my turn ons are ..

Being seduced ... this is almost an obsession for me, it is my biggest Turn on.

when my Submissive Husband takes control ( I am really only Domme when I am Hypermanic , then I take it to the extreme and Go into virtual worlds to engage in sadistic sexually activity which turns me on, as does the extreme of being the victim of such activities )

The Smell of certain colognes, certain accents, sexting .... I have never been unfaithful in the literal sense, but online .... I am addicted to the seduction and possibilities I guess.

My Best Friends Voice in my ear when we are Gaming online

Kissing hot guys, watching them pee.

Mother/son roleplay and getting punished by being spanked and verbally berated for being a constant disappointment

I have an elaborate and rather complicated fantasy where I **** Skrillex and DeadMau5 with a strap-on. Usually in the fantasy DeadMau5 walks in on me and Skrillex and he confesses that he has a secret desire to do this and I break him in for the first time.

Usually, I have a lot of fantasies where it's the man's first time of doing a certain fantasy or it's my first time doing something. So, according to my fantasies, I've had my cherry popped countless times, lol. Wouldn't that be nice where if you wanted you could lose your cherry more than once? Maybe it wouldn't be such a big deal and there wasn't so much pressure to lose it, you could just enjoy your first time again and again...does that even make sense?

Plaid turns me on. I love wearing it and watching others wearing it. It doesn't matter who wears it, plaid is just plain sexy.

SkrillMau5 turns me on. I have my own SkrillMau5 blog on my tumblr and I write a lot of erotica. I've actually turned one of my stories into a book, but only one copy for me to keep.

And, uh, these fantasies are to remain in this thread...as this is a safe community, right?

@DrSkipper I bet your writing is VERY interesting - you could self publish on amazon perhaps?

And obviously leak me a copy

I love women in dresses, especially when they're looking traditionally like a woman *blush*

I don't know the legal stuff, considering Skrillex and DeadMau5 are real people and I'd have to get their permission to publish erotica made about them (and I don't think DeadMau5 would appreciate getting forced to be a sex slave by a dominatrix.)

I can send you the link to my writing. I'd like to work on Mama more because now that it's been a couple months since I've finished with it I see that there is more room for improvement, but that was what I turned into a book and there's no way for me to really remake the book. Suggestions?

Just put a legal disclaimer on it "any resemblence to real life or real people is purely coincidental...blah blah.." - or just change the name :P

Not as hot as SkrillMau5 *drools*

You're twice as hot :P

Giving my ex boyfriend a blow job

when someone treats me like a princess or at least is nice and gentle to me.

Pregnant women.

Ohh and I also like the idea of a woman making love to me using a strap-on.

I love feeling small or short

What turns me on is a well written piece of music or a well thought out painting. A nice piece of sashimi with ginger and a couple of uninterrupted hours of adult time with my companion

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Wow, my virgoan sensibilities will not allow me to comment in this thread or my little girl sensibilities

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Oh my what a world we live in

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I don't understand.

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Domesticity

I get turned on by a lot of things, I remember one time I got aroused when I was just dancing with a girl.