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Dec 16, 2014, 12:41 AM
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Well a few weeks ago my best friend open up to me about her true feelings towards me and I feel the same way but the only thing is I'm married so I just am confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my husband coming up on 10 years this April and I just can't throw away the last 10 years for nothing. I asked him if we could have an open relationship and I was told no he said he would be jealous because we talk all the time and he doesn't want me to leave him for her. So I just feel confused and don't know what to do!!
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Dec 16, 2014, 08:03 AM
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This is only my opinion, but I think you and your friend need to put the notion of being together romantically behind you or break off your friendship. Your husband is understandably worried because he's not the best friend and he could end up losing the lover side as well where we're told spouses are supposed to be our best friends and lovers. He's seeing himself losing both.
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Dec 16, 2014, 08:27 AM
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I been there done that so my advice is you have to have his blessing or your going to feel trapped . Maybe ask him to join so he wont feel left out .
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