High libido?

So, every time I see an attractive girl, I can't imagine being just her friend, all I want to do is explore her... sexually, I don't mind being her friend, but I just want to get in there. I guess I might just be a normal man... but just not very platonic with attractive females.. although I can conceal my attraction very well, I just notice that if they weren't female I probably wouldn't even bother talking to them.

Also, whenever I hear a story of a woman being in a relationship where the partner is not sexually present, it *bleeps* me the *bleep* off (translation: I feel anger at the injustice).

Also I'm new here so, hi, everybody. Guess it helped to get that load off.

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I don't know how old you are. But from what you describe, I would say you're just a normal guy. This is, to some extent, why people sometimes argue with regard to the question of whether or not men and women can ever really be casual, platonic friends. It's in the nature of men, especially young men, to always be "on the prowl" for the next sexual conquest. It's in our genes.

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I agree with The Skeezyks, it just sounds like you're a young man with hormones to spare. Now I would offer that you should expand your horizons. Talk to women who don't fit your attraction model without any intention of "scoring" with them. There are friends out there if you give them a chance beyond your libido. I say this because you said if they weren't an attractive woman you wouldn't bother talking to them.

Well said...