My boyfriend has a fetish I can't satisfy?

My boyfriend (whom I love very much and vice versa), has a fetish called "teratophila". The love or attraction to monsters. *Sighs* He has looked up: "Frankenstein fetish, monster girls fetish, and cute monster boys". (He's pansexual, which I have no problem with). He does have Aspergers Syndrome, so I understand that he has been attached to monsters longer than he has me. And I don't care that he watches porn or anything, but it just gets under my skin that he talks and goes on about monsters than he ever has about me. Am I being stupid? I know fantasies and fetishes are just that. But, I feel envious??

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With regard to your post, no you're not being stupid. Feeling envious is a common human emotion. I think my wife is probably sometimes envious of my computer! On the other hand, this is a situation that could become troublesome to your relationship over time. So, from my perspective, some couples counseling around this concern might be in order.

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Would he be into some kind of role play with you?

Isn't it a trait of people with Aspergers to have an obsession?
Maybe you could watch these movies together? (:

I agree with The Skeezyks in that couples counseling could probably help this situation. It will help you come to grips with his interest and maybe allow you both to find a way to make it work together.