Why is Virginity Stigmatized?

I think virginity all by itself isn't stigmatized if people make a conscious choice due to moral or religious reasons not to have sex until marriage. Or if people choose not to date due to extremely busy life being in medical school for example. Nothing wrong with that.

I think people do look down on it when it is due to inability to maintain a relationship with anyone or even inability to ask anyone out. And not willing to learn and improve. Then I could see how it bother people. But virginity as a conscious choice all by itself isn't a problem

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