Pregnant from fingering with ejaculation (possibly) on my fingers

So me and my girlfriend were fooling around Friday, and the first time I ejaculated it may or may have not got on my fingers.. Then we waited about 10minutes-1hour (Not sure)
and started messing around again.. Mind, this time she was like bent over me, and I was fingering her with my left hand (I use my right hand) so there could have been possibly
no ejaculation on it at all.. But then after awhile I switched to my right hand again, there is no cum on my hand or finger. Then after I ejaculated my second time, we stopped overall.
Then she decided to tell me about how you can get pregnant from cum on the finger.. Then I immediately started worrying because I'm not looking for kids right now..
But minding to what I said, there was no cum on the fingers I cum with.. Maybe little bits got on it but I usually wipe my hands and etc.. So there was not.. But I don't
know if it's just me, but sometimes when cum gets on my fingers it makes them feel different..and they did feel kind of different. Could it still possibly be cum?
What are the chances of her getting pregnant even if there is no cum on my fingers that I can visibly see? I just don't want too worry about it, and I don't want her too..
Her period is not until the beginning days of the month usually, so I still have awhile.

What are my chances?

Chances of her becoming pregnant? Not likely, but still possible.

I hope this is a joke. There is no possible way you can get a girl pregnant like that.

It's more likely that she could get pregnant from pre-ejaculate. There's a very slim chance of her getting pregnant from it being on your hands, but not very good.

A suggestion? Have your girlfriend sign up at a website for tracking her period, or download an app to do so. That way you can keep an eye on her fertile days and know better than to mess around without being very safe in the 6-8 days prior to her ovulation and thus peak fertility. Women are only really fertile for a few days a month, and sperm can live up to 7 days or so in the woman's pelvic cavity; so start tracking her cycles to get an idea as to when to be more careful!

As to your question: believe it or not, the vaginal pH is too acidic for sperm, and therefore it is actually toxic to it. Cervical mucous, which is more heavily present during ovulation, protects the sperm from being killed by the vaginal secretions. Seminal fluid also protects sperm. But with the potentially tiny amount present on your fingers, unless you were actually pressed up against her cervix (unlikely, as that would be very uncomfortable for her) would be ridiculously unlikely to survive enough to get up unto the uterus and head for the Fallopian tubes.

And with no offense at all intended, ladies and gentleman, this is the result of the lack of comprehensive sex education in schools and/or by the parents.

Thank you, I completely agree with the sex education part too.. I had no one to tell me anything, I solely relied on google.

And thanks again, that further clears it up. I was really worried for awhile.

Hi everyone,

The responsibilities for sex ed are widely distributed, and with the internet (and libraries) and call-in lines and public health outreach and clinics and ... each and every student that can read, text, use a phone, take a class, etc. must step-up and take ownership of learning what they need to know. This thread is an example of owning what you need to know. Unlike getting a drivers license before being allowed to legally drive a car, there's no official threshold one must demonstrate understanding and proficiency with before getting into sex.

After running a project to bring improved sex ed to public schools I have observed a few things. One, that "parents or schools failed to teach sex ed" is a cop out. Students and people in general are remarkably knowledgeable about lots of things not taught in school. School-aged students somehow know a great deal. Names of members of their favorite bands? They know it. What drugs are available in the school underground? They know. Best new apps? etc. Is Android better than iOS? They have opinions.

So, no shame or put-downs for asking, that's one way to learn. Do this for yourself, make sure you work out before you ask who is a credible and reliable source. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and Planned Parenthood would be credible sources, for example. Random articles or blogs on the internet? Read with caution.

The barrier for schools doing a better job is a minority of parents feel uncomfortable with the idea of children (their precious little darlings) being sexual. Over 80 percent of parents, though, would support better sex ed. But it's a soft support. Kudos to the many activists and medical professionals who have pushed through policies and legislation for scientific and medically accurate information to be provided to students. There are limits on this, however, because pleasure and truly descriptive depictions of sexual encounters are too controversial in most communities for teachers or invited speakers to delve into.

Oh, one more. In a sexual encounter there are 3 basic knowledge conditions: (a) both partners are ignorant of their risks for sexually transmitted diseases and being involved with a pregnancy; (b) both partners are fully knowledgeable about these risks; and (c) partner A knows a great deal and Partner B knows less.

The best option is B, both partners have done their diligence and agree on the wisest and safest course of action.

Option A is a personal and public health nightmare, just look at the stats on the cases of sexually transmitted infections (including HIV).

Option C is ambiguous. The partners would need to discuss what is known and decide what to do. The wisest course is to keep to safer behaviors until further research is conducted. The one who knows less would also have to defer to the knowledge of their partner for this. This involved power-interaction issues and questions of trust.

If only sex was as simple as driving!

Revu2

yes it is possible to get someone pregnant this way. where I work we deal with many teen agers who believed as long as there wasnt penetration (full intercourse) they couldnt get pregnant. the bottom line is that in any minute drop of ejaculation there are millions of sperm. that droplet touches any part of a womans genitals from any source (penis, fingers or object\toys) thats millions of little dudes a swimming in her bodily fluids upstream.

my suggestion is invest in some condoms. that way your hands wont be transferring little dudes from you to any part of her privates if you dont want and are not prepared to deal with children in your life.

Totally agree with amandalouise. Actually, studies find that boys that buy condoms are far more successful at avoiding becoming involved in pregnancies than those that rely on a free supply.

A sterile set of latex gloves (medical grade, not housework grade) would also be wise.

That's assuming both of you are above the age of consent in your state.

Be knowledgeable, be safe, have fun.

Revu2